"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thinking about taking up dancing lessons. Recommendations?

TheProspect

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I'm looking to learn an actual type of dance. I enjoy casually dancing but it's starting to get old and boring and I want to expand my skill set a bit. I'm thinking about starting a dance class soon, and moving on to another class for another style once I get reasonably good at the first, and so on... I'm just not sure where I want to start.

What styles or types have you guys tried and think are the most fun/rewarding to learn?

I know for sure I eventually want to learn salsa, but other than that, I'm not too familiar with dancing or any of the styles.

Suggestions?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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yuppee

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I don't know crap about dancing, but tango seems to appeal to a certain type of woman. Square dancing appeals to more, tho. I"d look into roller skate dancing, myself.
 
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