"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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my wife had a brilliant idea today. when I say I love history I LOVE history. not very far behind my fav subject horse racing. I can sit down and watch history documenteries all day long or read just about antyhing history related. I love it i love it.

I suppose she's tired of me hogging the TV all the time or whatever, but she said why don't you find a course online or something to take. i was like.. you know.. that's not a horrible idea. in fact it's a pretty good idea. i don't need a degree or antyhing, just doing it for pure fun of it. it would be hard to fit it in my schedule, but that's all down the road stuff.. tuesdays and fridays i work pretty late in the night with the horse racing.

anyway, what i want to know is can i take an online history course without like, actually not going to college? I don't want to go to school l ol, i just want to go back to history class.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you are not doing it for credit or to attain some kind of degree/certification... why not just do it on your own? There are so many books and material out there. Do you even need to take a class if you are doing it for fun? It's just more money out of your pocket and you dont even get the perks of a real class (networking, etc.).
 

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Some schools will admit you as "non-degree" where you can take a few courses without getting a degree. You also may be able to "audit" the class. So you can watch the lectures and not have to do exams.

But, if you take it for academic credit, find out how they handle exams. A lot of legitimate colleges that offer online courses require that your exams be taken in front of a proctor such as a licensed teacher, librarian, etc.

Or, if you simply just want to watch lectures on history at your leisure, how about this:

http://www.thegreatcourses.com/tgc/courses/CoursesByCategory.aspx?ps=918

You can order DVD recordings of actual college course lectures. (I'm in no way affliated with that company.)
 

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Here's a site that you might find interesting... completely free too: http://www.khanacademy.org/

Also, a lot of times I like to go to college bookstores to see what books are being used for certain courses (like in economics and stuff). Just write down the books for the history class you want to take and do it on your own. Chances are you can be more thorough and detail-oriented than a class that is stuck to a certain time schedule. Of course, it takes a lot more discipline on your part but you have a lot more freedom.

A subject like history... I don't find it similar to courses like calculus, when if you are stuck, you really do need an instructor or someone to help guide you through some of the material. All you really need is good reading comprehension and an appetite/interest in the subject which you seem to already have.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Some schools will admit you as "non-degree" where you can take a few courses without getting a degree. You also may be able to "audit" the class. So you can watch the lectures and not have to do exams.

But, if you take it for academic credit, find out how they handle exams. A lot of legitimate colleges that offer online courses require that your exams be taken in front of a proctor such as a licensed teacher, librarian, etc.

Or, if you simply just want to watch lectures on history at your leisure, how about this:

http://www.thegreatcourses.com/tgc/courses/CoursesByCategory.aspx?ps=918

You can order DVD recordings of actual college course lectures. (I'm in no way affliated with that company.)
rotfl my wife is going to kill you.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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