"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thinking about learning a martial art? Consider this video first.

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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YAMON dj

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wow your both really big jerks. just shut up and continue with your life without feeling the urge to insult one another.

..and please, no smarmy smart ass remarks.. if you can restrain yourselves that is.
 

MuayThai

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Guess what i do.

If you want street fighting technique, no frills, no drills, no bowing ****.
Do muay thai or Vale Tudo.
After 3 months of muay thai my kicks was like a baseball bat... siriously.After 2 years, well, I'd think about the situatuaion before using in on someone.

I did ju-jitsu for a year and it is a very powerful grappling art. I could easily take down and hold guys nearly twice my weight (no joke). But unless you've been doing it for a few years you won't be able to use it practically.

Muay Thai is the one. trust.
 

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Originally posted by Blackdragon5095
what about burce lee fighting style ??? won't that work ??
Sure, if you're willing to devote your life to studying a martial art. You're 20? If you started today, you might be able fight like Bruce Lee by the time your Social Security kicks in.

The guys (and girls) who excel at martial arts have a talent for it. It's no different from being able to hit a 95mph fastball, or sing with perfect pitch, or drive nails through a board with your bare hand, or do logarithms in your head.

Further, falling back on your training and being able to spontaneously analyze a situation and react with splitsecond thinking -- correctly -- while four ex-cons are trying to mash you into paste takes an entirely different talent.

A martial art is a sport, nothing more. It is NOT fighting. Successfully applying a martial art in real-world close combat scenarios is not the kind of talent you want to discover at the time you need it.

If you want to learn to defend yourself, I suggest you get friendly with a head bouncer at some rough joint, and offer him fifty bucks for a self-defense lesson some evening when he's not working. Tell him you want to learn two or three moves -- no more -- to put a guy down so you can escape a bad situation safely. Tell him you want to learn some really nasty, do-or-die stuff. Make that clear. Then practice them every day until they become second-nature and spend your life hoping you never have to use it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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