"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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Before you say somthing, think! I dont mean just on sosuave i mean when talking to girls!

You might think yeah thats intresting because of course every ones favourite subject is themself but if your are just briningup a random thing up about yourself or anything really just think for a second is this going to beintresting or will it bore her?

A conversation is the two of you discusing a common subject. If one of you talks to the other with very little input from the other thats called a lecture!

And take a look at my signiture aswell
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thats all it takes man. Have a good conversation with her, make her laugh, and you my friend are in the green. Trick is getting those **tches to talk! lol. Seriously though, thats what got me married to my wife. Good luck guy
 

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Woah! Trooper, you're 20 and you got married? Early:cheer:

I actually feel it would be better if you let the girl give you a lecture. They seem to enjoy those kinda things. Just occasionally give them a little push and they'll go on forever..


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