"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Everyone in here is always complaining that they're not tall enough, or good looking enough. Tough.

At least you can look in the mirror to see your average face or shorter stature.

You wanna know what would really suck? Being blind. Not being able to see a damn thing in this world. Then you can say you haven't had a fair shake.

So remember, everytime you cry about how unfair life is, always remember that there are people who have it far worse than you.

Go tell a blind person about how it sucks being short.

Ingrates.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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scottfall

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Its hard to define problems like this. Sure, life could be alot worse but that dosent mean the emotinal self knows the difference. This is like telling someone who's father just died "atleast you still have your mom."

Its hard to put pain in perspective because the only pain you can truly feel is your own.
 

Smack

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Obey Propaganda said:
Everyone in here is always complaining that they're not tall enough, or good looking enough. Tough.

At least you can look in the mirror to see your average face or shorter stature.

You wanna know what would really suck? Being blind. Not being able to see a damn thing in this world. Then you can say you haven't had a fair shake.

So remember, everytime you cry about how unfair life is, always remember that there are people who have it far worse than you.

Go tell a blind person about how it sucks being short.

Ingrates.
I believe one should always look at the positives. For being blind, the positive is that it doesn't matter how good looking the girl is - you can't see her. This opens up a whole new world of women who are otherwise great, but just induce the gag reflex when looked at.
 

LostAndConfused

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Yeah yeah we've heard the sh1t all before.

People starving in Africa getting high on methane from their own fecal matter to take away the pain...

yeah yeah.

Its all relative. Stupid thread.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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OrangeCrusader

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LostAndConfused said:
Yeah yeah we've heard the sh1t all before.

People starving in Africa getting high on methane from their own fecal matter to take away the pain...

yeah yeah.

Its all relative. Stupid thread.
And yet you still blindly ignore this point and continue whining. Good work.
 

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No one gives a damn about that, all that people feel from their own individual perspective is that their plight isn't acknowledged and taken care of enough, and the first thing they hate more than anything else is to be moralized or talked condescendingly, or being told what to do by anyone, that this person's woes is worth more than them. They don't worry about any stranger's plight, only about saving their own skin. Any pain only exists if they directly feel it themselves.

Everyone else in the world could spontaneously blow up and as long as it wouldn't affect their own little world people still wouldn't give a flying ****.
 

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I totally agree ..
There are lots of other bigger problems than good looking and sh!t .
 

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Agree. I have a blind teacher, completely blind, and Ive always respected him so much because I know how hard it can be, yet he still controls a full classroom. One day im going to blindfold myself and go a day blind, in my house ofcourse
 
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