“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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think we controll..shiet?

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we all like to think we are in controll..of things in our lifes..or even or life itself...but i really dont think so anymore.

was at class..a lecturer.my business studies ..leturer..likes to get phylosopical..on our asess from time to time..he say's..ish..that has nothing to do with our current topic at-times.
this time he was on about how there are various laws in the universe..and one of them which relates to us..is the law of control..

well..we have no controll over the outcomes of things in our lifes, we have no controll of how things turn-out,either for better or worse.
we only have controll..over our actions..and our activities. but not our success.
ever did something right and still got bad results? or ever did something wrong and got good results?
it all comes down to the right timing,you time wrongly you get wrong results.(and since we can hardly controll,timing perfectly..will just put it down to preparation, if we are prepared al the time to get women then the odds of success could favour us.)

i said could because..we have no controll over the outcome of things..meaning even if we are prepared things could still go wrong. thats why we all need to develop a tough skin..in life in generall and when interacting with women..or else..you'll keep feeling insecure and scared.

we chat a woman..she agree's and we think it was all our doing? in most cases..she was in da mood to be receptive to us at that moment in time,if we had used same technique at some other place or time it might not even work. and all the tips your might had learned couldnt have helped for ****..she was just attracted to you then and there..i have been in situations where i chat women half way for onlyfew minutes and they offer the number without me asking or any effort..was it luck? maybe..but all the same i had no controll over the result..she was just in da mood that day.

only way we could gain good results most of the time is by..experience. by going through something in the past..either by failure or success..we have knowlegdge of what kinda actions we need to take to gain a good results.and even then it isnt 100%, full-proof, we might succeed.if you keep making the same mistakes then you're and idiot.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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whther or not i believe it. thinking in this way is relaxing to the mind.
 

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Some people say you have complete control and there's no such thing as luck...
 

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Regardless If Your Right Or Wrong, The Mindset Of Having Control Of Your Life Is A Positive, More Confident Way Of Going Through Life. I Don't Know Which Theory Is Correct, But I Feel A A Lot More Confident When I Feel Like I Have Control.
 
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