"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Think this sums up Pof... lol

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Solomon

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I lol'd and it's true,

I've noticed since I've turned into a fattie girls are asking me to jump through hoops I didn't have to jump through as a slimmer guy.
 

MM92

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Favorite bands Joy Division and Radiohead? If that picture was real i'd be amazed they hadn't topped themselves yet.
 

Naughty Ninja

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Proven FACT: Looking good shirtless (cut up) on POF guarantees you more replies and frequent unsolicited emails than wearing a shirt does.

It's hilarious how the site and clowns on it claim shirtless pics aren't allowed because 'women don't like it' as if the "ladies" on that site aren't on there trolling for one night stands and all kinds of freaky sh1t.

Bait the svckers with the women. Keep the dvdes on there clueless and on there for as long as possible making money from advertisers based on ad clicks.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
Proven FACT: Looking good shirtless (cut up) on POF guarantees you more replies and frequent unsolicited emails than wearing a shirt does.

It's hilarious how the site and clowns on it claim shirtless pics aren't allowed because 'women don't like it' as if the "ladies" on that site aren't on there trolling for one night stands and all kinds of freaky sh1t.

Bait the svckers with the women. Keep the dvdes on there clueless and on there for as long as possible making money from advertisers based on ad clicks.
Yeah I had a pretty good upper body shirtless pic on my profile and I rarely got responses let alone unsolicited messages. The guy/girl ratio on any sex site is 10/1 and I think 99% of the women on those sites are pretty ugly or out of shape. The hot ones? Well I don't know who gets them because I though I had a pretty good profile setup and I never got a date with one.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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