"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The mind cannot distinguish the difference between fantasy and reality!

Read that again!

The mind cannot distinguish the difference between fantasy and reality!

Whether you are visualizing success in your brain, or whether you are actually experiencing that success, your mind does not know the difference. Create the visualization with such detail, the mind will not know if you are actually experiencing it, or if it is a visualization. To the mind it is all the same.

The mind cannot distinguish the difference between fantasy and reality!

The second key to success is: Thoughts are creative.

Our UNIVERSE is governed by the most powerful law that exists; The Law of Attraction. The Law of Attraction states that whatever you think about, you bring about. Your thoughts are sending a frequency to the universe. The universe then finds a way to match that thought into reality. Your thoughts create reality!

Look at everyone around you. Look at the rich. They attract money because they think about money. Look at the sick. They attract illness because they are constantly thinking about sickness. Look at the poor. They are constantly thinking about how they don't have money.

The universe then takes these thoughts, and manifests them into reality. It works every time, with everything.

The third key to success. Feelings are creative.

When you think about success, you must feel the success. Feel the joy! Feel the love! Feel the excitement. You must not feel the lack of what you want. You must feel the the feelings of having what you want right now!

Remember, the mind does not know the difference between fantasy and reality. Your creative thougths and feelings must be so strong that you are CONVINCED that, that is the way things must be. They must be so strong that even though you don't have success (yet), in your mind you already do have success!

That is all you need! You brain. Your thoughts. Your feelings.

1 - The mind cannot decipher reality vs. fantasy.

2 - Thoughts and feelings are creative.

3 - Manifest reality by visualizing and experiencing the end result, right now!

4 - The stronger your visualization, the faster the universe will attract your desires. Make is so real, your brain won't know whether it is fact or fantasy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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...uh huh....it also says you have to REALLY want something and we all know that the more you want the girl - the less she wants you ;) ...
 

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Hey B-lemond!!! Its been a long while since ive seen you on the forumns....

Anyways Nice post. I didnt know that the mind couldnt tell the difference between reality and fantasy, thats interesting. I hope you keep givin us tips they're always awesome.
 

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Babnik said:
...uh huh....it also says you have to REALLY want something and we all know that the more you want the girl - the less she wants you ;) ...

EXACTLY!! You bring up a GREAT point!

The act of wanting implies that you DON'T have it. If you WANT something, you DON'T have it, at that moment. To use the Law of Attraction to your favor, you must BELIEVE that you ALREADY HAVE the girl, money, car, health, etc. Act like you already have you already have it, NOW!

Wanting implies a lack of something. This tells the universe that you want to want her. You don't, however, actually have her. You are just reaffirming it to the universe that you want the lack of having her. The universe then answers to this by you having less of her.

Feel the END RESULT! Not the lack of something.
 

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B-Lemond said:
EXACTLY!! You bring up a GREAT point!

The act of wanting implies that you DON'T have it. If you WANT something, you DON'T have it, at that moment. To use the Law of Attraction to your favor, you must BELIEVE that you ALREADY HAVE the girl, money, car, health, etc. Act like you already have you already have it, NOW!

Wanting implies a lack of something. This tells the universe that you want to want her. You don't, however, actually have her. You are just reaffirming it to the universe that you want the lack of having her. The universe then answers to this by you having less of her.

Feel the END RESULT! Not the lack of something.
Very hard to force your thoughts to be that way in front of a girl when a thousand of others is going through your head.

And then if you already have her then you don't want her, and she will mean nothing to you. I mean if I will feel like I have her then I may as well go find another girl I want since I already have this one, but I won't even talk to her...lmao its so dumb.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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