"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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think she's not interested? think again

john_1234

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have you ever initiated conversation with a girl and she seemed distant cause she was quiet and gave one word responses? it seems like she's dissing you. but that's not always the case.
i approached this cutie behind the register in the mall. despite the fact that she seemed distant, i asked for her # anyway and she gave it to me. after hanging out for some time, she revealed that when we first met, she was really nervous and that was the reason she wasn't engaged in the conversation. funny cause i always interpreted a girl being quiet and giving one word responses as a sign of not being interested.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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scott44

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Good tip.

This is why a lot of AFC's lose their confidence so quick.
 

DJ4Real

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Depends on the girl. Sometimes it can mean she isn't interested and sometimes it can mean she's nervous.
 

Johnnie5

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be straight up ,

are you nevous ?

yes

hold her hand and stroke it and say its ok , cmon i didnt think i was that scary ;)
 
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