"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Think I've discovered how to overcome AMOGS.

ElStud

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I think I've discovered how to overcome AMOG. So basically I go in the set and one girls boyfriend keeps trying to AMOG. While I'm talking, he's saying sh*t like "Wow, that's a nice pickup line" and even is trying to cut the set short by saying "Well, it was nice talking to you" and sh*t like that. But my game remained untouched by the guy, why? Because I used a simple little strategy: Ignore the AMOG unless he actually has something useful to say.

Basically, ignore their AMOGing attempts and only include them if they say something useful. The only useful thing the AMOG in this situation said was "So where do you live?" because it was actually ontopic with the convo. But yeah, best thing to do is just ignore AMOG's or even try to get them out of the set if you want to.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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MikeYikes122

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ElStud, I don't think you dealt with an AMOG. I think you were hitting on a girl in front of her boyfriend.
 

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ElStud said:
I think I've discovered how to overcome AMOG. So basically I go in the set and one girls boyfriend keeps trying to AMOG. While I'm talking, he's saying sh*t like "Wow, that's a nice pickup line" and even is trying to cut the set short by saying "Well, it was nice talking to you" and sh*t like that. But my game remained untouched by the guy, why? Because I used a simple little strategy: Ignore the AMOG unless he actually has something useful to say.

Basically, ignore their AMOGing attempts and only include them if they say something useful. The only useful thing the AMOG in this situation said was "So where do you live?" because it was actually ontopic with the convo. But yeah, best thing to do is just ignore AMOG's or even try to get them out of the set if you want to.

... try to hit on a girl who isnt with a guy already? this guy didnt even seem to see you as a threat
 

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ElStud said:
I think I've discovered how to overcome AMOG. So basically I go in the set and one girls boyfriend keeps trying to AMOG. While I'm talking, he's saying sh*t like "Wow, that's a nice pickup line" and even is trying to cut the set short by saying "Well, it was nice talking to you" and sh*t like that. But my game remained untouched by the guy, why? Because I used a simple little strategy: Ignore the AMOG unless he actually has something useful to say.

Basically, ignore their AMOGing attempts and only include them if they say something useful. The only useful thing the AMOG in this situation said was "So where do you live?" because it was actually ontopic with the convo. But yeah, best thing to do is just ignore AMOG's or even try to get them out of the set if you want to.
how did you overcome anyting with that?
woman who are emotionally involved with a man, will normally cheat on him, but they tend to get very weird if someone tries to make a pick-up on them when their boyfriend or date are standing right there... most do not like that... even if they would have liked you if they were by themselves...
 

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ElStud said:
I think I've discovered how to overcome AMOG. So basically I go in the set and one girls boyfriend keeps trying to AMOG. While I'm talking, he's saying sh*t like "Wow, that's a nice pickup line" and even is trying to cut the set short by saying "Well, it was nice talking to you" and sh*t like that. But my game remained untouched by the guy, why? Because I used a simple little strategy: Ignore the AMOG unless he actually has something useful to say.

Basically, ignore their AMOGing attempts and only include them if they say something useful. The only useful thing the AMOG in this situation said was "So where do you live?" because it was actually ontopic with the convo. But yeah, best thing to do is just ignore AMOG's or even try to get them out of the set if you want to.
Nothing new. AMOGs have existed since the stone age and unfortunately ignoring them doesn't always work.

A weaker less confident AMOG for sure, especially if he's not very involved with the set but a stronger one will build animosity towards you in the set.

If he's already a part of that group they'll be more likely to listen to him, ignoring him simply shows you're unwilling to match wits with him.

Nothing disarms an AMOG more than making him look like an idiot for trying against you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Once again, you show how much of an idiot you are. I SWEAR to everything that youre a troll. Im pretty sure, judging by youre ludacris antics on this site, that guy wasnt threated by you the slightest bit. Get off the computer.
 

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ElStud,

If you continue with this strategy, I will assure you that you WILL get your @ss kicked in time. I'm willing to guess that this guy wasn't even threatened by you though. I know I wouldn't be if some fat Steve Urkel-type came up to my girlfriend and started making Pokemon jokes and Yoshi noises. BUT, if you tried to escalate things with her, she or I would let you know, without a doubt, that you had crossed the line.

Many guys would probably take it to the next level and start throwing fists at you. I'm willing to guess that this will happen to you if you continue with this stupid, stupid strategy. Time and time again you prove to the forum how much of an idiot you are.
 

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If you have strong frame , ignoring is the best thing .
I dont deal with AMOG's anymore. I just let them talk , and see how their voice gets lower and lower , while im gaming the girl .

No need to response to AMOGS as long as they dont get the attention from girl . Why buy into their frame ?

And when they get attention , just laugh , say to girl " LOL THIS DUDE IS PRETTY COOL " and continue your conversation .

Most important thing is not to get affected by them .

Now let them sink :D
 

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I'm not up to date on these acronyms. What is an AMOG?

To me it sounds like you were just hitting on a girl who had a boyfriend. Count yourself lucky he wasn't worried about you.
 

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Daddy The Pimp said:
If you have strong frame , ignoring is the best thing .
I dont deal with AMOG's anymore. I just let them talk , and see how their voice gets lower and lower , while im gaming the girl .

No need to response to AMOGS as long as they dont get the attention from girl . Why buy into their frame ?

And when they get attention , just laugh , say to girl " LOL THIS DUDE IS PRETTY COOL " and continue your conversation .

Most important thing is not to get affected by them .

Now let them sink :D

I co-sign this, but be careful sometimes amog's can steal a set

Elstud actually has a pretty good point, but in this situation he was hitting on a chick with a boyfriend

Meehow is great at AMoging, the guy is skinny looking and sounds gay, but his frigging frame is so ridilcous that when amog's or afc's try to interfere girls shut them out, because Meehow has them drawn in, just peep his youtube vids

He gets it in
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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