Ive been seeing this girl for over a month now and things arent going very smoothly. First within the 2nd week of seeing each other we got pretty hot and heavy, she gave me a bj and i returned the favored. We almost had sex but didnt. Then she turned around said she made a bet that she wont have sex for 4 months. I think some of you remember that previous post. Well i havent recieved anything since then. She keeps telling me in time......now its been a little over a month and still nothing. We were supposed to spend New Years eve together and that was planned for a week and she ended up getting drunk over a friends house. She definately an attention ***** cause she has so many boy friends. Lately ive been coming 2nd to her friends and her horses. Shes changed plans so many times when i set things up. Im really not up to trying to work things out i just wondering if theres anything different you guys would do, but my intial thing is NEXT!
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Think im getting ready to next this one
- Thread starter Avsguy01
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You spending time with her is as much of a waste of time as you writing this post. C'mon, you know what should be done. Do you think that any other DJs here would think otherwise?
Oh shes had this tripped planned to florida with her gf for quite some time and shes leaving thursday and wont be back for a week. I wondering if i should next her after the trip so she is thinking she is tied down and wont do as much, cause if i next her now she will go on this trip and it will be a win situation for her. What do you think?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Player_Supreme
Banned
Think im getting ready to next this one "
After reading your post I'm wondering why your only thinking of it...it should of been done along time ago.
What man waits like a dog for a hand out? This woman has lost all respect for you for that you know. Women don't want chumps to date that they can boss around and make wait like a trained chimp for a bannana.
After reading all the shyt on this site...I'm surprised you even waited this long!
Here read this post:
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=45238
You are proving it's author is right on point.
After reading your post I'm wondering why your only thinking of it...it should of been done along time ago.
What man waits like a dog for a hand out? This woman has lost all respect for you for that you know. Women don't want chumps to date that they can boss around and make wait like a trained chimp for a bannana.
After reading all the shyt on this site...I'm surprised you even waited this long!
Here read this post:
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=45238
You are proving it's author is right on point.
Its a done deal! No hard feelings! We are still friends and everything is cool we can just see other people now. I feel so much better. She obviously wasnt ready for a relationship yet and we just kept it at well see what happens. **** i even joked about how ill come back to her after she has won her bet about holding off for 4 months without sex. She comes back and says thats your whole plan is to have sex with other people and then come back to me when im ready and i jokingly said ....yep...lol and she said you just wait they wont even compare to me! Ill give you a ride of your life.....so hey i might even get something out of this after all! We are pretty cool friends now so it all good 
Craig Reeves
Master Don Juan
NEXT!