Think im about to ganji this girl BUT..

[christz]

I just wanted to get some opinons of others just to make sure this is the right move.

long story short, i like this girl i think she likes me we kinda have this thing, i'm no in a friends zone because well we've messed around somewhat and she is always getting freaky on the phone telling me to come over and fu*k her although i can't because i got work early in the mornings and two her parents would flip.

Also she calls me just to say good night, she calls me every night to have conversation, i don't call her to much she iniates all contact etc.. she picks up whenever i call even when she's sleeping (hears phone, picks up)

and pretty much a handfull of other good signs.

However what's bad and why i'm thinking about ganji'ing her for a bit is because one, when i make plans with her spur of the moment she normally tells me that she can't because she has plans with this and this person to do this and this.

uhh, if you liked somebody a lot wouldn't you just drop your shyt and go on a date? i dunno just me

another thing is, she tends to bring up other guys, and she even told me of this new guy she met recently who is "cool" and she's telling me how she's gonna try and hang out with him a lot and for what it seems work around his schedual so she can hang out with him.

However she still insist on calling me everynight before bed etc etc..

I'm thinkin I need to have this girl miss me, and i know she will but i dunno i mean ganji is reserved if the girl is playing games, this girl isn't disrespecting me she hasen't blown me off or flaked out on me EVER so maybe there is another method to get her to come my way quicker.

Attraction isn't a problem since she thinks and has said i'm the hottest guy she knows. so WTF man what do i NEED to do here?

 

[darthsidious]

young afc i will teach you the ways of the force, but you must bow down.

(christz bows down to darthsidious)

okay now on to bizness....

you should not care about flaky behavior or weird mind games from women if you do not...

get this...

if you do not have continuous steady sex with her or in a relationship with her...

and if you do care, you have great fear and anger in you and you will be of much use as a soldier in my galactic quest of conquering women.

and that p ussyeater and all others who praise pook, you are sheep...

 

[Wiesman44]

Darth Sidious, your a moron, get a life.



Your main problem is your not acting like enough of a man. Your acting like a pushover. Any guy that lays the ground rules and takes charge would not find a girl doing this to him. If this chick is so into u, then screw her. Its not difficult. She may not throw herself at you, but she's waiting for u to push the right buttons.

 

[squirrels]

First of all, sex her.

If women have plans, they don't just DROP them to go on a date with you. Not often, anyway...occasionally if she REALLY wants to see you she will, but you can't expect her to give up her life to be with you any more than SHE can expect YOU to give up yours.

She's either mentioning other men because she wants to make you jealous, or because she gets around and she just wants you (and those other guys too) as f--ktoys.

Have you sexed her yet? If not, then do that. And then re-evaluate your situation. But sex her first.

 

[christz]

good words, so ganji is pointless i guess I just gotta amp up the game a little, i mean it really does seem like she is throwing the jelousy card at me, because she's like well monday i'll be at "this and this" place with the dude she met.

now i still have homefeild advantage because this dude lives a good 45 minutes or more away from her and me, me and her live in the same town so yeah.

but still i would think if the girl is attracted to your looks, enjoys talking to you and calls you everynight just to say goodnight no matter how tired she is or what time of the night it may be then she likes you.

but yeah the whole thing where she just met this dude and she's all wanting to see him a lot is ghey and call me a little childish but i doubt he has anything on me.

honestly if i was to ignore this girl right now my phone would get blown up. So the object is to arrange to hang out with her and put a few moves down she's always makeing refrence to us fu*king and me putting it in her @$$ because she wants to "take my @$$ virginity away" in her own words so its obivous that she has the desire but for some reason NO drive to see me. weird

 

[christz]

this is just a quick update, talked to her tried to set something up in stone a head of time, and although i forgot she had work i just get the impression that she's givin me the "always busy" cop out but i dunno

i'm so jaded because i was burned by an AW awhile back its hard to put trust back in people espeiclly females which is partly why i never made plans with her.

but honestly i know if i don't hang out with her, i'll lose ground i'm almost willing to just pack up my toys and leave. But thats totally a defeatest attitude but everytime she brings up how she's got plans with this other dude but then on the flip side calls me just to say gnight i wanna be like, check it don't call me anymore. if the dude your chillin with is so cool call him not me

so its hard to seperate actually being busy, from just saying she's busy

 

[Porky]

Originally posted by christz
uhh, if you liked somebody a lot wouldn't you just drop your shyt and go on a date? i dunno just me

If I have any kind of self-respect I keep the plans I've made regardless of what they are. I'm only as good as my word.

She's telling you about other guys in order to make you jealous and get off your ass and make plans with her. None of this spur-of-the-moment ****. Give her the time of day and put forth the effort to make concrete plans in advance with her.

There's no reason to ganji her, you already have her full attention.

 

[#1 P.I.M.P.]

WTf is ganji