Think I made a breakthrough tonight

[Shift]

Well tonight I met up with a girl from Tinder. Just a quick casual date, I picked her up and we had tacos and then walked around a bit.

Now normally when I'm out on a date I'm usually really interested in a girl and tend to come off a bit too strong.

This one was a little different though. This girl was about a 6 (so bangable on my 1/0 binary, would fvck, would not fvck scale.) The thing was she just seemed so...well DUMB. The conversation was really boring. Whenever I would say something slightly interesting about myself she would get way into it and shower me with compliments. She just seemed like she was trying too hard. This is how girls must feel when betas flood them with attention. She was also a terrible kisser and wore way too much lipstick.

So for the first time, I've gone out with a girl that is attractive enough for sex, but I don't think I really want to see again. Perhaps the more women you go out with the better developed your standards become.

You see there's been a lot of stuff I understood in theory. But it seems to be finally falling into place to where the red pill is becoming deeply engrained. I think I can continue this mindset moving forward. I am the prize. The girl needs to prove her worth to ME. Not the other way around. Thanks SoSuave. Couldn't have done it without you.

Keep on improving my brothers!

"As you think, you shall become. " - Pook

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

"As you think, you shall become. " - Pook

Probably the truest sh!t I have ever heard, and he didn't even make that quote; he stol it from Bruce Lee haha

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Well tonight I met up with a girl from Tinder. Just a quick casual date, I picked her up and we had tacos and then walked around a bit.

Now normally when I'm out on a date I'm usually really interested in a girl and tend to come off a bit too strong.

This one was a little different though. This girl was about a 6 (so bangable on my 1/0 binary, would fvck, would not fvck scale.) The thing was she just seemed so...well DUMB. The conversation was really boring. Whenever I would say something slightly interesting about myself she would get way into it and shower me with compliments. She just seemed like she was trying too hard. This is how girls must feel when betas flood them with attention. She was also a terrible kisser and wore way too much lipstick.

So for the first time, I've gone out with a girl that is attractive enough for sex, but I don't think I really want to see again. Perhaps the more women you go out with the better developed your standards become.

You see there's been a lot of stuff I understood in theory. But it seems to be finally falling into place to where the red pill is becoming deeply engrained. I think I can continue this mindset moving forward. I am the prize. The girl needs to prove her worth to ME. Not the other way around. Thanks SoSuave. Couldn't have done it without you.

Keep on improving my brothers!

"As you think, you shall become. " - Pook

Having someone work hard for you will be good for your confidence, I'd keep her around. She'd make a great "fluffer". You can't have a roster full of flakes and time-wasters you know, that's bogus.

 

[Shift]

Having someone work hard for you will be good for your confidence, I'd keep her around. She'd make a great "fluffer". You can't have a roster full of flakes and time-wasters you know, that's bogus.

Eh, it's nice to have a girl work hard for you but only really when you're into them too. I've already got a couple of coworkers who are trying real hard to get with me. It gets really annoying after awhile

 

[Mike32ct]

Just because a female technically is on the "pass" side of a "pass/fail" bone-able test doesn't necessarily mean you REALLY want to F her or HAVE to F her.

I think you still need SOME sort of connection, no matter how shallow or short-lived it might be. There still might be things about her personality or actions that might turn you off.

Even for ONS' in the past, I always preferred to have a good connection even if we only talked for less than an hour prior. Sort of like a GFE with someone who isn't a prostie lol.

 

[NSX-R]

Probably the truest sh!t I have ever heard, and he didn't even make that quote; he stol it from Bruce Lee haha

Actually Aristotle said something like that and Bruce took it and delivered it better.

 

[Atom Smasher]

"For as he thinks in his heart, so is he."
Prov. 23:7

 

[TheMonkeyKing]

Good work OP. Whatever realisations we come to, they are all useful for the evolving mindset.

I wouldn't necessarily agree with keeping low value women on rotation. I'd rather be out on my own, free to approach attractive women, than go out with an unattractive women. Your own value is negated by lower value associates, especially in the eyes of women. Plus I don't/can't bang women I don't find attractive anymore.

That being said, it is good for confidence, and as I always attest, the best way to keep someone's attention in the first instance is to be a couple SMV points ahead of them. Alright for a short term fling, until they get too clingy.