"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Think I got tested this morning

SamMalone

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I got back together with a girl recently, and we decided to take things slow as far as sex goes. The girl came over last night and I cooked for her, and we had a heavy makeout section. We went upstairs and she told me that she likes how her down below hairs feel and has me rub to see if I liked it. I think I could have done something but I was so hungover from the day before I just wanted sleep.

This morning she tells me she wanted to give me a BJ last night but not this morning. The she stradled me for a few minutes and we made out and then she has to leave because she was late for work. Was she testing me or teasing me or what?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Juando

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Stop focusing on what she's doing or not doing.

Decide what YOU want and go for it.

From your description, she sounds easy, if you want her.
 
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