"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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think I got tested by gf?

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Hey guys just need a quick opinion on how u guys would handle a situation like this

today my girl came over to my house, we get along really good, she is happy, she displays affection... and we kiss quite often.

I have noticed that the intense kissing has decreased in the past week... she still attracted to me and wants a future with me, things are great... but I feel the passion of her kissing has diminished a bit

everytime we kiss, its natural, and we both go for it, and it feels right

but today I felt weird, when she was about to leave my house, I just casually got close went for a kiss, and she kinda turned to the side smiling

didnt think much of it, then when we walked to the car, went for it , and she was like "we had enough kissing for today" and kinda smiled

she told me she was joking... but i just felt weird, like she kinda pushed me a bit, and I was like ok talk to you later..

so I just know what I gotta do, Im going to lay back, dont do anything, and let her initiate contact...

but I wanna know how u guys would handle this situations, like I dont want her to get the idea she can get away with this in the future, and that I will allow her to control how much kissing/sexual stuff goes on...

how do u guys handle this in long term relationships? we are 4 months into the relationship... sex is great, we did it yesterday, we kiss often, I like making out with my girl, its always natural,,, but today It seemed that I was more into it than her, and i backed down, but dont know what to tell her next time she does something like this???

should I bring it up? or just act more disinterested next time and wait for her to initiate physical stuff?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Either you have a bad breath issue or she has lost interest.

I would seriously check out the breath issue, but if it's not that, then her IL has plummeted. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news. It seems your only option is to pull way back and observe her reaction. Play it cool...no emotion. Just be "busy" and demonstrate that you have other things going on in your life. Good luck.
 
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Hey, I've been in your situation before.

Like they say on this forum, you don't treat bad behavior with good behavior.

If she starts acting distant, then you act doubly distant.
 
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