Hey guys just need a quick opinion on how u guys would handle a situation like this
today my girl came over to my house, we get along really good, she is happy, she displays affection... and we kiss quite often.
I have noticed that the intense kissing has decreased in the past week... she still attracted to me and wants a future with me, things are great... but I feel the passion of her kissing has diminished a bit
everytime we kiss, its natural, and we both go for it, and it feels right
but today I felt weird, when she was about to leave my house, I just casually got close went for a kiss, and she kinda turned to the side smiling
didnt think much of it, then when we walked to the car, went for it , and she was like "we had enough kissing for today" and kinda smiled
she told me she was joking... but i just felt weird, like she kinda pushed me a bit, and I was like ok talk to you later..
so I just know what I gotta do, Im going to lay back, dont do anything, and let her initiate contact...
but I wanna know how u guys would handle this situations, like I dont want her to get the idea she can get away with this in the future, and that I will allow her to control how much kissing/sexual stuff goes on...
how do u guys handle this in long term relationships? we are 4 months into the relationship... sex is great, we did it yesterday, we kiss often, I like making out with my girl, its always natural,,, but today It seemed that I was more into it than her, and i backed down, but dont know what to tell her next time she does something like this???
should I bring it up? or just act more disinterested next time and wait for her to initiate physical stuff?
today my girl came over to my house, we get along really good, she is happy, she displays affection... and we kiss quite often.
I have noticed that the intense kissing has decreased in the past week... she still attracted to me and wants a future with me, things are great... but I feel the passion of her kissing has diminished a bit
everytime we kiss, its natural, and we both go for it, and it feels right
but today I felt weird, when she was about to leave my house, I just casually got close went for a kiss, and she kinda turned to the side smiling
didnt think much of it, then when we walked to the car, went for it , and she was like "we had enough kissing for today" and kinda smiled
she told me she was joking... but i just felt weird, like she kinda pushed me a bit, and I was like ok talk to you later..
so I just know what I gotta do, Im going to lay back, dont do anything, and let her initiate contact...
but I wanna know how u guys would handle this situations, like I dont want her to get the idea she can get away with this in the future, and that I will allow her to control how much kissing/sexual stuff goes on...
how do u guys handle this in long term relationships? we are 4 months into the relationship... sex is great, we did it yesterday, we kiss often, I like making out with my girl, its always natural,,, but today It seemed that I was more into it than her, and i backed down, but dont know what to tell her next time she does something like this???
should I bring it up? or just act more disinterested next time and wait for her to initiate physical stuff?
