"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Things you can start today to be a better DJ

beastmaster79

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1.IMPROVE HYGIENE
-brush teeth twice/day
-keep fingernails clean
-get a haircut that compliments your face and personality
-stay clean shaven
-this will give you more self respect and will help reduce rejection

2.GET IN SHAPE
-start doing push-ups, pull-ups, abs, if you've got access to weights hit em hard.
-start the habit now, thats the biggest thing. discipline*time=results
-constantly research to get the most out of your workouts. there is good info on this site.

3.TALK TO PEOPLE
-random openers, any time you see the opportunity to start up a conversation do it. men or women. over time this will make you much more suave.

4. READ A BOOK INSTEAD OF TV OR VIDEO GAMES
-whatever it is your interested in. this will give you a better command of language which in turn will help you come across as more succesful, intelligent, interesting. it becomes very enjoyable.

5. START A NEW HOBBY
-do something that forces you to interact with real people
-this could be basketball, ping-pong, chess, dancing, volunteering, whatever

6. IMPROVE YOUR POSTURE
-this is a serious self respect issue.
-do you want to look potent or do you want to look sickly and weak?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah start improving the little details bit by bit is a good start. Women notice the little details.
 

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"Journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jon55

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beastmaster79 said:
6. IMPROVE YOUR POSTURE
-this is a serious self respect issue.
-do you want to look potent or do you want to look sickly and weak?

This I need to work on. Any good links or posts on this you guys might recommend?
 

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Oh, and one other simple thing that most guys don't realize is so important: Smell Good!!! Go buy yourself a $3 can of Axe...those commercials may be an exaggeration, but they've got the basics right.
 

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Lexie said:
Oh, and one other simple thing that most guys don't realize is so important: Smell Good!!! Go buy yourself a $3 can of Axe...those commercials may be an exaggeration, but they've got the basics right.
Thank you for this. Many times I have been around guys who reeked. I just wanted to say, "dude go buy some deodorant. It's not like it's expensive or anything." But by then I had already passed out from the odors.

I'm a guy and I can't stand this dirty crap, think how women would feel if they got a whiff of stink!
 

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Smelling bad does not mean being dirty. There are people that cannot control their odors no matter how much they shower or how much deodorant they put on. Just put in "body odor support" into Google and you'll see.

A lot of people that smell bad already know about their problem.

All guys hate odor; some women love it.
 

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total bulls***. most of that list would apply to the gay lifestlye. just be in a much higher peer class than she is. that is the number one thing. hell, that is the only thing you need in this world. the lifestlye you can offer a girl is all that counts.

yes, the man with the most money wins. that is why people kill and get killed. why practically every single war is started. believing that good posture and a pretty face is the way to get a high-end girl is like believing that wars are raged for freedom. sexy in tribal africa is the guy with the most goats. there are also lots of wars in tribal africa. the idiots die for their "freedom" while the king's family lives in a million plus euro apartment in france.

look more at what she must give you. she should dress up all the time. wear makeup all the time. heels all the time. she should be nice and thin. she shouldn't open her mouth too much. if they can do it in pi$$ poor post soviet countries they can do it in your neighborhood. demand more from your hor!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Also you should ad

"Get a cool new style of clothing that will make you look good."

Your not gonna get too much attention by wearing shorts and a t-shirt.

woops just noticed after I posted that bambam and loacker posted that too.. sorry bout that guys!
 

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Umm good, but really short, and I'm sure heaps of other people would have posted stuff better than this...
 
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