"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Things were going soo smoothly!

Avsguy01

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Its all good! I took her to my Christmas party last night. We had a really good time and her IL is very very high. Shes a very stubborn girl. She got in a conversation with her friend about sex vs a relationship. Well what ended up happening is that she really likes me alot and didnt want it to be an all sex relationship. So her friend told her that she bets she will have sex with me in a very short period of time. Then her friend bet her the 4 months thing. Like i said she is stubborn and she keeps to her word so that is why she bet her. She bet her $200. I think this whole thing is kinda funny. This girl is all over my bones but now she has this bet and im gonna play along with it. Its kinda fun and keeps things interesting. It also gives me an opportunity to with hold from her since she is all over me. MAKES ME A CHALLENGE. She also told me if she wins this bet i get $100 as well, we split 50/50. Now that is an accentive.... :D You guys problably think this is just pure crazy but in a way i kinda like it. Our whole first 4 months of our relationship if we happen to stay together will be a challenge. Can you say this has happened to you?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Jimbo2k

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Originally posted by Avsguy01
Now that is an accentive....
Ahem, INCENTIVE :)

And btw, keep it up, Id be doing exactly what your doing right now. Just beware of what the rest of the board is waring - dont give up the power.
 

Avsguy01

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I hear ya! Oh i thought that was wrong, but im not too worried about spelling on the board here, thanks for the correction anyway.
 
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