Things to talk about with a girl you just met

[Krassus]

Alight, so normally this isn't an issue, since most of the time, you're only there to get a number. But what happens if you're "stuck" with the girl?

For example, if you're both waiting for the bus? People say i'm a good conversationalist, but it's still quite possible for me to run out of things to say, especially to a person i know little about.

So i think it would be a good idea to make a list of questions i could ask a girl to streer up conversation. So if i suddenly run out of things to say, i can fall back to list mentally, and go on without pausing.

This usually happens when you're "branching" topics (one question, then more questions arise based on answers), but end up running out of leaves, and having to start a whole new branch.

 

[516]

Try to comment on an article of clothing or handbag or something. Or ask if she goes to school if you think thats applicable.

 

[Krassus]

Yeah those are on my list already. Another good (obvious) one is to ask where she's going to / from. She's most likely heading from work or hanging out with friends, so those two branches spawn a million things to talk about.

 

[veng142]

We all know that girls love to talk, so you just have to line up the oppertunity for her to babble away

Usually I find that any of these will let the AVERAGE girl talk for a LONG time: Article of clothing, asking what kind of music shes into, where she's heading, if she lives close (branch to "oh really, did you always live here? You're from NY, wow, I love NY, especially the ________")

If shes not talking alot and giving short answers, shes most likely apprehensive because she doesn't know you well and is shy.. break the ice with a joke. Laughing together ALWAYS helps conversation flow. Just listen carefully when she DOES talk and find somthing humerous you can point out.

 

[Krassus]

Yeah, luckily, having a bad sense of humor has never been a problem of mine

 

[DjDreamer]

Smiling is contagious.

Building up good feeling will make simple jokes seem incredible.

Open ended questions will result in the babbling of a woman that's in a good mood.

Ask "who", "what", "where", "when" "why" and "how". Avoid asking things that can be answered in "yes" or "no".

Not all woman meeting situations are the same so it makes no sense in giving you a script.

...be observant...

It's either you attempt to make her talk till infinity or you she makes you the babbler. It's that simple!