jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
How do I look? Did I say that right? What do they think of me? Was I accepted or rejected? Will they like me?..
If these thoughts dominate, or ever dominated your mind at time, this mean you have dealt with insecurity, people pleasing, self consciousness, fear of failure, shyness, oversensitivity, competitiveness, defensiveness, a need for control, avoidance, craving approval, difficulty handling rejection, or being controlled by others’ opinions.
They say that it happens when you trust people’s approval more than something higher than yourself.
So, even without religion, they say you may need something that is "above everything else", even tho this may sound irrational.
But...let's say, someone struggles with seduction: the forum bible and you guys can give a guide to help this man raise and improve. And that man will be another man. And will start to have results.
Now... let's say we want to focus on helping men to break their* insercurities forever..
So if that really happened to You, and you've managed to change, you also find out what are the real things that worked for you, that made you have that real internal switch. So what concrete actions helped you eliminate these insecurities and stop being controlled by others?
It’s not about being a “nice guy”, and reading how to break that.
You can even reach top in seduction, but still have these issues, which won't make you a Mature Men.
*insecurities are not ours, but have been "entrusted" to us by our parents, or by the people and environment in which we grew up.
If these thoughts dominate, or ever dominated your mind at time, this mean you have dealt with insecurity, people pleasing, self consciousness, fear of failure, shyness, oversensitivity, competitiveness, defensiveness, a need for control, avoidance, craving approval, difficulty handling rejection, or being controlled by others’ opinions.
They say that it happens when you trust people’s approval more than something higher than yourself.
So, even without religion, they say you may need something that is "above everything else", even tho this may sound irrational.
But...let's say, someone struggles with seduction: the forum bible and you guys can give a guide to help this man raise and improve. And that man will be another man. And will start to have results.
Now... let's say we want to focus on helping men to break their* insercurities forever..
So if that really happened to You, and you've managed to change, you also find out what are the real things that worked for you, that made you have that real internal switch. So what concrete actions helped you eliminate these insecurities and stop being controlled by others?
It’s not about being a “nice guy”, and reading how to break that.
You can even reach top in seduction, but still have these issues, which won't make you a Mature Men.
*insecurities are not ours, but have been "entrusted" to us by our parents, or by the people and environment in which we grew up.