Things that women do not care about in a guy

[skinnyguy]

1. Intelligence. If women liked smart guys, I would have had at least 600 sex partners by now. Nuff said.

2. Personality. The fact that the arrogant, narcissistic douchebags get the best girls proves this. I dare you to argue with me.

3. Your job. Unless you're a professional athlete making millions, women do not care about your employment status. If I were working at Goldman Sachs making 200K, I would not still not have a girlfriend if I didn't have any social status. Some unemployed guys are getting more tail than rich dudes with high profile jobs.

4. Values/integrity. Having integrity is actually counterproductive. If you're a liar/cheater, you will have women eating out of your hands.


I want to introduce my own theory called FBS. This stands for Face, body, Status. If you don't have these three things, you might as well call it quits. You can try to use "game" but you will always be dissatisfied with your relationships and feel insecure.

 

[PlayHer Man]

All women care about is what you can do for them.

Different women "need" different things. This explains the inconsistencies in the men women choose.

Examples:

-A Hoodrat needs a strong Vin Diesel guy to protect her.

-A shallow girl needs a tall handsome moron to show off.

-An insecure, needy chick needs a clingy beta fag she can control.

-A materialistic woman needs a rich guy (or something close)

-A fading beauty who wants kids needs a guy with good genes.

-A lonely attention wh0re slut needs good sex. She'll f*ck anyone "cute" who validates her existence and makes her feel attractive.


And the list goes on. But it all boils down to how you can be of service. :yes:

 

[Tomthebomb]

1. Intelligence. If women liked smart guys, I would have had at least 600 sex partners by now. Nuff said.

2. Personality. The fact that the arrogant, narcissistic douchebags get the best girls proves this. I dare you to argue with me.

3. Your job. Unless you're a professional athlete making millions, women do not care about your employment status. If I were working at Goldman Sachs making 200K, I would not still not have a girlfriend if I didn't have any social status. Some unemployed guys are getting more tail than rich dudes with high profile jobs.

4. Values/integrity. Having integrity is actually counterproductive. If you're a liar/cheater, you will have women eating out of your hands.


I want to introduce my own theory called FBS. This stands for Face, body, Status. If you don't have these three things, you might as well call it quits. You can try to use "game" but you will always be dissatisfied with your relationships and feel insecure.

Your post is wrong, because the first three points, intelligence, personality and your job all influence your status. In fact personality pretty closely equals status - because it isn't a mans literal status in the world that a girl is attracted to but his portrayal of status.

Girls aren't attracted to men despite (what you perceive as) having bad personality traits: "arrogant, narcissistic", they are attracted to them BECAUSE of these traits. A man with arrogance portrays that he is extremely confident - why? due to past successes (preselection), and that means that he has strong genes.

You are projecting here, just because women obviously disagree with your ideas of what a good personality is doesn't make them wrong.



Also, women do care about values/integrity, not for the purposes of attraction/reproduction, but for protection/provision.

 

[skinnyguy]

Any ball player or rap star can CLEAN UP in any club in America. You think they are intelligent? lol. You think they have a good personality? LOL. Women are attracted to the things that they possess - status, fame, and looks.

 

[321montross]

OP is full of BS..

'High quality' women prefer guys who have charming personality and guys who are intelligent in a variety of of ways. They also love guys who can laugh at themselves and be goofy from time to time...just being their normal selves.

I don't have a six pack, am not 6'3, but am good looking, fit and carry myself with confidence and straight-forwardness..... If a girl I meet via a friend or just total strangers I meet at a bar or out on the town shows interest right away it's because she likes my directness when talking to her and I can right away see she's at least somewhat interested in conversing. Some you later simply put in the friend category and others you hope to have more one on one time with.

The high quality women want high quality men, simple as that.

 

[Stagger Lee]

I agree with you. Attraction for females is mostly based on looks/appearance. Personality is subjectively percieved based on appearance. Women notice and even imagine personality issues like arrogance, narcissism etc if the guy is unattractive, but reframe and ignore those traits if the guy is attractive looking. A lot of unattractive guys are arrogant and narcissistic too, but not only does it not help them attract women it can actual count against them.

Ie. when a good looking guys says xyz, females tend to perceive it as confident, funny, ****y. When a not good looking guy says the same xyz, females tend percieve it as arrogant, offensive and creepy followed by her often negging him hard and/or walking away.

 

[Tomthebomb]

I agree with you. Attraction for females is mostly based on looks/appearance. Personality is subjectively percieved based on appearance. Women notice and even imagine personality issues like arrogance, narcissism etc if the guy is unattractive, but reframe and ignore those traits if the guy is attractive looking. A lot of unattractive guys are arrogant and narcissistic too, but not only does it not help them attract women it can actual count against them.

Ie. when a good looking guys says xyz, females tend to perceive it as confident, funny, ****y. When a not good looking guy says the same xyz, females tend percieve it as arrogant, offensive and creepy followed by her often negging him hard and/or walking away.

clearly you aren't getting laid.

 

[GS750]

I agree with this Stagger. I used to work with a guy who is a textbook narcissist, I mean a complete ***hole. He's also ugly as hell and goofy looking. He repels women like no one I have ever seen. You take his persona and add some Luke Perry looks, he'd do much better. looks would make a world of difference

 

[Zarky]

yawn, another OP forgetting that everyone is different. So unenlightening.

 

[( . )( . )]

yawn, another OP forgetting that everyone is different. So unenlightening.

What's that like the 5th time you've said the same thing? You's are not unique snowflakes either sweetheart.

You don't use game successfully (or in your case pretend to use game) and come out of it thinking "Gee they're all so different". One or the other woman, one or the other. Your a dandy playa who "get's it" or your bamboozled by it all at how complex and unique they all are. Get your stories sorted out.

 

[nismo-4]

Men value love and women love value. More concise, but accurate post. I cosign PlayHer Man of course, for breaking down how Briffault's Law is for hypergamy.

This is mostly called the LMS (looks, money, status) argument. So raise your value.

Case closed.

 

[PackDaddy]

You're so disgustingly wrong on 1-3 that I feel like barfing up my balls. 4 is debatable though.

Spoken like a true beta fagg0t. You're still at the stage where you hate "a$$holes."

Let me tell you something about a$$holes. One, they're smart and use their cunning to attain power. Women are attracted to power. Two, they're way more confident than you are. Confidence = extroverted = personality. Three, women absolutely care about your job. Well, at least the ones that matter. The low self-esteem ones will settle for a guy with a sh1ttier job. The ones with a healthier self-esteem will desire a man with a good job.

Your problem is clear as day light. Your confidence is in the sh1tter. I can tell by the tone of your post.

The worst thing you can do is be a blamer. Blamers never mature. Accept responsibility and grow into a mature powerful male.

The harsh language is meant to shock you into action.

 

[floydb25]

Incorrect... It's not these things are irrelevant - they just don't matter if the guy is unattractive to them. Kind of like these qualities wouldn't matter to you, either. What are these high quality women you speak of? The HOT, shallow ones who chase after equal-minded douchebags? If anything, they're the ones in the right, and can live such a lifestyle. And they do.

 

[OptimumIndividual]

What a stupid thread