"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Things That Make You The Rebel/Bad Guy

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My gf said to me lastnight that she respects me and likes me more then any other guy, because im mean to her. So i asked her why does it attract you. Anyways she said that because no womans attracted to a girly guy, who buys them the world, who hasnt got a backbone. Which im pretty proud of that im doing something right for once lol

Anyways i was just wondering what you guys think, what kind of traits of a bad guy/rebel makes it different from the nice guy or just plain jerk?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DJsparky

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See i have that due to past relationships, i guess you learn form your expierences and it came to a shock to me how she brung it up.
I reckon what seperates the nice guys, from the jerks mainly is the fact that jerks arent affraid to show there sexuality and while nice guys respect a woman, the woman makes them wait.
 

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the word NO is the most powerful weapon in any mans arsenal. also not rewarding the girls bad behavior with a gift i.e-flowers, sorrys, etc.

she respects you cause "YOU" call the shots. your way not her way.

good man:)
 
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