Okay, come on guys, some of this stuff is downright horrid being posted. Let me give you some tidbits about stuff that tips women off that "Hey, this guy might be WEIRD AND AWFULLY NOT RIGHT FOR ME":
(Keep in mind that you SHOULD do your own thing, and I fully encourage it. However, if you're having issues pulling women, and you can't figure out what the matter is, the problem is that women are basically form-fitted in their desires by society - if you don't fit it for one girl, odds are high you won't fit it for another, either. ANYHOW...)
- Excessively quoting music or literature - one quote is pushing it, even. You don't look thoughtful, you look like a snobbish prick or a mindless music follower (you know the type).
- Wearing makeup. It's downright ridiculous. Eyeshadow (i.e. Good Charlotte crap) doesn't make you look unique or rebellious - it makes you look like a fruitcake. Beat it.
- Being a 'male drama queen'. Don't make it that every time you talk, you're describing "your one buddy who one time..." or "I can't believe he/she said that to me...". MANY guys are guilty of this. Most (not ALL) women will want a MAN, not another woman.
- Being a ridiculously burnout or alcoholic. I mean, let's be serious here, don't be drinking more than once or twice a week. Not only do you look like a total lowlife, now you can't afford to go out anywhere, because alcohol is expensive. Doing weed is NOT mainstream socially acceptable, so a majority of girls will NOT enjoy this. Use some sense. If you have no sense, stop drinking and smoking.
- Talking about yourself all the time. We all know you're a beautiful and interesting person, but the world doesn't revolve around you, sunshine. Making yourself the topic 24/7, 100% of the time, isn't what you're going to want to use to pull women. Depending on your relationship you may be talking about yourself MOST of the time, or vice versa...but not 100% of the time. Ever.
- Failing classes. Listen...even though women don't always say what they really mean, what sounds best here...
"I want a guy who is smart and is going places"...OR...
"I want a guy who skips class, failed 3 classes last year, and is working at a car wash for the rest of his life". Understand where I'm going here? Smart is sexy, being stupid is NOT. Put some effort into your studies.
- In highschool, wearing the same clothes two days in a row is suicide. It's a very shallow observation but it's the truth. If you're ever looking to torpedo your reputation, go on ahead and do this. Note: In university, wearing your same clothes for any LESS that 3 days in a row is suicide. It shows you have money, which is impossible. All of us university students are on welfare
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- Playing too many computer games or video games. Geek material. Period.
- Having all girls as friends. This just means that you're looking for a man, not a woman. Sorry to be breaking it to you, but it looks like you're not straight.
- Having all guys as friends. This shows all women that you have no talent or skill with women. Not always true (i.e. sports players).
There's SO many more, but I don't have the time to list them. Guys, in high school you CAN be your own person, but if you're trying to pick up a typical girl, you've got to be something nearer to a typical guy. It SUCKS, and it's WRONG, but you can't do too much about it until university. Once you get into university, it's basically a free-for-all.
Later.
(Keep in mind that you SHOULD do your own thing, and I fully encourage it. However, if you're having issues pulling women, and you can't figure out what the matter is, the problem is that women are basically form-fitted in their desires by society - if you don't fit it for one girl, odds are high you won't fit it for another, either. ANYHOW...)
- Excessively quoting music or literature - one quote is pushing it, even. You don't look thoughtful, you look like a snobbish prick or a mindless music follower (you know the type).
- Wearing makeup. It's downright ridiculous. Eyeshadow (i.e. Good Charlotte crap) doesn't make you look unique or rebellious - it makes you look like a fruitcake. Beat it.
- Being a 'male drama queen'. Don't make it that every time you talk, you're describing "your one buddy who one time..." or "I can't believe he/she said that to me...". MANY guys are guilty of this. Most (not ALL) women will want a MAN, not another woman.
- Being a ridiculously burnout or alcoholic. I mean, let's be serious here, don't be drinking more than once or twice a week. Not only do you look like a total lowlife, now you can't afford to go out anywhere, because alcohol is expensive. Doing weed is NOT mainstream socially acceptable, so a majority of girls will NOT enjoy this. Use some sense. If you have no sense, stop drinking and smoking.
- Talking about yourself all the time. We all know you're a beautiful and interesting person, but the world doesn't revolve around you, sunshine. Making yourself the topic 24/7, 100% of the time, isn't what you're going to want to use to pull women. Depending on your relationship you may be talking about yourself MOST of the time, or vice versa...but not 100% of the time. Ever.
- Failing classes. Listen...even though women don't always say what they really mean, what sounds best here...
"I want a guy who is smart and is going places"...OR...
"I want a guy who skips class, failed 3 classes last year, and is working at a car wash for the rest of his life". Understand where I'm going here? Smart is sexy, being stupid is NOT. Put some effort into your studies.
- In highschool, wearing the same clothes two days in a row is suicide. It's a very shallow observation but it's the truth. If you're ever looking to torpedo your reputation, go on ahead and do this. Note: In university, wearing your same clothes for any LESS that 3 days in a row is suicide. It shows you have money, which is impossible. All of us university students are on welfare
.- Playing too many computer games or video games. Geek material. Period.
- Having all girls as friends. This just means that you're looking for a man, not a woman. Sorry to be breaking it to you, but it looks like you're not straight.
- Having all guys as friends. This shows all women that you have no talent or skill with women. Not always true (i.e. sports players).
There's SO many more, but I don't have the time to list them. Guys, in high school you CAN be your own person, but if you're trying to pick up a typical girl, you've got to be something nearer to a typical guy. It SUCKS, and it's WRONG, but you can't do too much about it until university. Once you get into university, it's basically a free-for-all.
Later.
