Things that knock you off your center.

[wifehunter]

Have a good center is vital to making any kind of progress with the ladies.

Lately I've been going thru some things. Death in the family, and the drama that follows.

New job, still adjusting and learning to make more money. Still homeless, but now sleeping in my new toyota prius.

People, I care about, leaving my life.

How about you? What knocks you off your horse, as it were?

 

[Poon King]

I think unexpected surprises knock everyone off center.

Outside of that.. I get knocked off center when I find out something I thought to be true was a lie. Reason being.. I'm very big on "living in reality" since that allows you to make the smartest choices. Any time I learn that I was operating on FALSE information and making dumb decisions because of it.. that can rattle me.

 

[Julian]

hey op im gonna pray for you brother stay strong

 

[NSX-R]

Op dude , remain strong. Have faith in yourself and you will make it. Believe that you are going to become better and focus on that. Good luck.

 

[ubercat]

Mate I'm sorry to hear. A death in the family will knock anyone. Some s***** parts of life just have to be lived through I guess you know that better than anyone. You've made 2 big achievements which must have taken huge willpower and strength of character, stay on the path even when it's dark and rocky.

 

[wifehunter]

Thanks, everyone, for the ecouragement. It means a lot!

I'm hoping someday to have my mojo at full strength, as it were. Till then, progress continues.

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Any communication with my ex-wife drops a giant turd in my serenity pool.

 

[Infern0]

Any communication with my ex-wife drops a giant turd in my serenity pool.

BPD ex for me

Any contact at all and I go back to 'nam

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

I hear ya... It just washes all our defences and new found self-belief away like they didn't exist. Remember though, being a victim is a habit of mind. With work we can change that conditioning.