"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Things that girls do, that are disrespectful to us DJ's?

wudiez

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Things that girls do, that are disrespectful to us DJ's? And how to know when to stop and draw the line.

So I want to discuss, what are the things that girls do? Alot of the guys here, just say when a girl get's B**CHY!

So what your interpretation of a girl getting *****y...

What's acceptable! What's the standard.

To some guys, a girl, just not returning calls, could be the line, to others it could afte she said "NO" the third time.

Just seeing what our more expreienced Dj's think.. When's it time to call it quits or call her on her behaviour..

And of coruse, i've just learned recently from my other post, that you should treat girls with respect, but at the same time not let her walk over you, or act *****y etc.

So lets discuss what the *****y things girls do... Shoudl we still treat them the same way, as a friend? WIth respect, or completely cut all lines of communication...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Omega

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Saying No more then once is enough to piss me off. In fact, after one "No", I next.
 

ER!C L!VE

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Wudiez, I'm just curious...

Are you male or female?

Discuss...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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00Kevin

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Most disrespectfull thing a woman can do is not appreciate a man for being a man. Most americanized women can't even tell you what makes a good man. Ask them and they will list of a bunch of feminine qualities.
 
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