"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Things That Are Big And Black

Crazy Asian

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On this site, we talk about nature, and the way things "should" be.
Like the man should have complete control over the woman.
But why don't you see that we are evolving creatures. The times have changed.

Now don't go bashing me.
I am definitely not saying that the man shouldn't lead and take charge.
Of course we should.
It is our role in society.
But there are so many things that you guys hate because it wasn't that exact way thousands of years ago.
Wake up, things change.

Maybe more mature and manly men don't have a problem with this, but for 90% of the people on the site it IS a problem.
From this site, we have built into our heads this HUGE ego.
This site brainwashes us to think that we are the sh1t and that we are better than everyone else.
No, fvck that, we aren't.
That type of behavior is what drives women away.

Admit to yourself that you are a lazy ugly pile of sh1t and DEAL WITH IT.
Don't sit around thinking you're all that, take some fvcking ACTION.

Get jacked like a mofo, become more socially acceptable, get smarter.
BECOME the sh1t, but don't act like it.
Act confident, but not egotistical.
Don't walk around like you have a stick shoved up your ass.
Walk with confidence and resolve instead.

Be kind to people, don't let this site make you think that you have to "neg" girls to get a fvcking chance with them.
I also hate all these terms that is used on this site.
It makes us look like a bunch of nerdy piles of sh1t.

Talk to chicks like a normal person.
Look beyond their "beauty" *cough makeup cough*.

Most importantly:
Find Passion in everything you do.
If you cannot find it, don't do it.
Life is too precious to waste time doing things that you do not truly care about.

But hey, what do I know, I'm just 16.
Maybe my views and ideas will change by the time I'm 18, but until then...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bonafide

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Yeah I def noticed this... I just changed it on my own though its true. This is some real talk.
 

Crazy Asian

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i just recently changed this about myself, and i couldn't believe how blinded I was by this site.
i mean, this site is good, but lots of mindsets here are just over the top.
 

Vice

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Don't post limiting beliefs on my forum.

I'd rather be deliriously-overly-optimistic than realistic.
 

DJVladdy

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Vice, zatknis' pridurok.

Crazy, you a smart dude, and I wish I knew 5 years ago what you know now. I agree 100%, even when you said to stop using these PUA terms: I cringe every time I see them, because I picture a complete nerd/goober using those words. You imagine Vin Diesel saying then you have to neg, and do DHV! ARGGgGGG. shut the fvck up, damn nerds!!

You know you are definitely on the right path, and your views are spot on, no joke. I've just now understanding this stuff. Life will prove again and again that your post is true.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Crazy Asian

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i like turtles
 

AlexParadox

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so true,
i agree with most of the stuff you wrote

the biggest thing this site can teach you is confidence.
there is NO NEED to break down how to talk to girls. It just happens.

be a man, stop over examining things and go out and try.
even attempting is doing worlds more then the next guy.
 
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