There's a subreddit called Married Red Pill (I won't link it here, but it's easy to find if you're interested).
Its wiki and sidebar contain a large amount of advice focused on helping men revive and maintain attraction within a marriage.
Much of what is recommended there seems to run counter to what is commonly promoted as a "healthy relationship."
Despite that, I've been reading the subreddit for quite a while, and I've noticed that many of the ideas discussed there appear to work in practice. Since the community is aimed specifically at men, the focus is on changing male behavior rather than trying to change women.
What's interesting is that the advice seems to have IRL results. I've known several friends and acquaintances who have applied some of the principles and reported improvements in their marriages and LTR's, where the mainstream relationship advice or "couples counseling" failed.
I'm curious what you think about the ideas being discussed there and if those are good things to learn as a man.
To me, it seems somewhat like an updated version of SoSuave, but focused on maintaining attraction and relationship dynamics within the LTR rather than dating.
Its wiki and sidebar contain a large amount of advice focused on helping men revive and maintain attraction within a marriage.
Much of what is recommended there seems to run counter to what is commonly promoted as a "healthy relationship."
Despite that, I've been reading the subreddit for quite a while, and I've noticed that many of the ideas discussed there appear to work in practice. Since the community is aimed specifically at men, the focus is on changing male behavior rather than trying to change women.
What's interesting is that the advice seems to have IRL results. I've known several friends and acquaintances who have applied some of the principles and reported improvements in their marriages and LTR's, where the mainstream relationship advice or "couples counseling" failed.
I'm curious what you think about the ideas being discussed there and if those are good things to learn as a man.
To me, it seems somewhat like an updated version of SoSuave, but focused on maintaining attraction and relationship dynamics within the LTR rather than dating.