MikeYikes122
Master Don Juan
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- May 16, 2003
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Ok, so here is the deal. I guess I was a late bloomer kind of. Actually, no, I wasn't a late bloomer - I'm just young for my grade. I'm just finishing up my sophomore year in college now.
So anyway....
I think girls started to take notice of me around the end of my sophomore year, but it wasn't anything I would ever let myself acknowledge. I didn't really acknowledge myself as "completely good-looking" until probably the end of my senior year when I guess I attained confidence from a first serious relationship. In my high school years it seemed like I could do 2-3 laps around the mall and have at least six or seven girls look at me. The ironic thing is that it was all throughout my junior and senior years guys and girls alike would tell me I looked so young and so scrawny and all that jazz. Yet in the midst of being told this, girls are looking at me, girls are smiling at me, etc. As you can see, this built my character and confidence at the same time.
Well anyway, I'm a big 19 year old now who is totally matured, has side-burns (haha), dresses a whole lot better, is a lot more muscular and taller, and has a lot more confidence and experience. My friend and I even posted our pics on that hotornot.com page, and my score ranged from 9.4-9.6. Basically, the point is, I am a whole lot more attractive now than I was in my budding days, and one thing has been driving me mad....
I'm obviously more attractive. I get better looking girls than I used to, but girls don't look at me that much at all anymore. I don't understand it. Of course, logic would say that better looks equals more looks from girls, but I know better than to look at girls logically. I have looked through previous posts and found almost nothing about this. Does anyone know what's up? It's not killing my confidence or anything, but it's something that is definitely worth addressing.
So anyway....
I think girls started to take notice of me around the end of my sophomore year, but it wasn't anything I would ever let myself acknowledge. I didn't really acknowledge myself as "completely good-looking" until probably the end of my senior year when I guess I attained confidence from a first serious relationship. In my high school years it seemed like I could do 2-3 laps around the mall and have at least six or seven girls look at me. The ironic thing is that it was all throughout my junior and senior years guys and girls alike would tell me I looked so young and so scrawny and all that jazz. Yet in the midst of being told this, girls are looking at me, girls are smiling at me, etc. As you can see, this built my character and confidence at the same time.
Well anyway, I'm a big 19 year old now who is totally matured, has side-burns (haha), dresses a whole lot better, is a lot more muscular and taller, and has a lot more confidence and experience. My friend and I even posted our pics on that hotornot.com page, and my score ranged from 9.4-9.6. Basically, the point is, I am a whole lot more attractive now than I was in my budding days, and one thing has been driving me mad....
I'm obviously more attractive. I get better looking girls than I used to, but girls don't look at me that much at all anymore. I don't understand it. Of course, logic would say that better looks equals more looks from girls, but I know better than to look at girls logically. I have looked through previous posts and found almost nothing about this. Does anyone know what's up? It's not killing my confidence or anything, but it's something that is definitely worth addressing.