Now I know lot of yall had thought about this! (hopefully) but for me its me, and myself and I... its my future, its my life, its my happiness and fulfillment and accomplishing all the things I dreamed of.... I don't know about you but I'd rather choose that anyday over girls and hopefully you guys will too! The reason why I am talking about this specific topic is because I noticed that back when I was still a afc, I focused all my life on a girl, and forgot about all the other areas of my life.. I forgot about my family, I forgot about where I want to head and what my purpose was!!! I was LOST !!!! it was like a disease not able to be cured and it was horrible.... and whats even worse is that you don't even know you have this disease! Now English is not my motherlanguage but hopefully you can see the point im trying to get across... and that is the focus on the big picture and the main picture..... which simply is YOU