Now I know lot of yall had thought about this! (hopefully) but for me its me, and myself and I... its my future, its my life, its my happiness and fulfillment and accomplishing all the things I dreamed of.... I don't know about you but I'd rather choose that anyday over girls and hopefully you guys will too! The reason why I am talking about this specific topic is because I noticed that back when I was still a afc, I focused all my life on a girl, and forgot about all the other areas of my life.. I forgot about my family, I forgot about where I want to head and what my purpose was!!! I was LOST !!!! it was like a disease not able to be cured and it was horrible.... and whats even worse is that you don't even know you have this disease! Now English is not my motherlanguage but hopefully you can see the point im trying to get across... and that is the focus on the big picture and the main picture..... which simply is YOU
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Things more important than girls!!!!
- Thread starter eatgel
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
lol , you are right, too many people place too much effort on getting girls.. there's a whole lot more to finding happiness in life. Once dating becomes a breeze, you generally find a new challenge. My current goal is to take my company worldwide =) A premium business streetwear line.. check it out when you have time! http://www.luxlivinonline.com
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Don Juan
I agree totally.
Having lots of girls isn't success; girls will come as a result of a successful life.
Having lots of girls isn't success; girls will come as a result of a successful life.
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