"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Things like this are 'The Enemy'!!

Checkmate12

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Came across this garbage on facebook; posted, shared, and liked by several girls on my friends list. A perfect example of media poisoning the minds of men and women alike. What is so hilarious is that I can almost guarantee that if the woman who wrote this found a very misguided man who did all 10 of these things for her, she would lose interest before she could even put her newly acquired first-date flowers in a vase.

http://thoughtcatalog.com/kate-bail...oned-dating-habits-we-should-make-cool-again/

For the record, points 1, 2, 8 actually are valid.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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El Suave

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Just the usual feminist garbage. I enjoyed the comments though :crackup: :crackup:
 
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