"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Things I've noticed

Thatfeel21

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1. Some guys on here claim to only go after HB 8-10s but yet aren't even on that level to deal with them. Then whenever posters post pics of HB's that are very attractive (or even sometimes not), posters are very quick to downplay said chick and say she's "only a HB 6 at most"

2. Going off of point 1, its obvious that people's taste vary. Widely. So keep that in mind when you automatically bash a poster because he prefers chicks with a$$ and tiiits over an anorexic chick with no curves. Personally, I will and always take thick chicks anyday over 'psuedo hot chicks with mad makeup on who are 5'6 and weigh only 120 lbs' Dont like it? Get over it. A lot of men like women, not scrawny teenage looking girls.

3. Most men wont reach Don Juan status. Of all the members on this forum, how many people are certified Don Juan? Who actually anoints us with such title? I honestly dont even know what that means. Why do we strive for that? Lets be real. The top posters on this site are either married, keyboard jockeys, or moderators who are excellent in theory but horrible in field.

4. My end to this rant is this: Be the best man you can be. If you have probs with women, dont ALWAYS come to this site asking for a play by play analysis. Crash and burn. Experience really is your best teacher. Dont live by other peoples standards.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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skinnyguy

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Thatfeel21 said:
1. Some guys on here claim to only go after HB 8-10s but yet aren't even on that level to deal with them. Then whenever posters post pics of HB's that are very attractive (or even sometimes not), posters are very quick to downplay said chick and say she's "only a HB 6 at most"
Couldn't agree more….these "DJ's" are completely out of their mind when rating chicks, and would be lucky to score an HB 5. Calling hot women "average"? LOL

I think it's an ego thing…if they admit a girl is an HB 9, they think that it makes them beta or something.
 

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Women really arent that hard. Ive had my issues with some here and there, but for the most part, theyre all the same. This forum does entertain me though. *Sigh*
 

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Dude 99% of everyone on this site is here for help. You have to take anything posted with a grain of rice.

There's alot to learn on this site from the links. If you are trying to learn from other users posts "you're gonna have a bad time"...
 

Starfvcks 64

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Stuff like "Senior Don Juan" and "Master Don Juan" is automatically assigned after a certain number of posts on the forum.

In order to be a Don Juan in real life you have to write like a 3000 page poem.
Good luck.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sylvester the cat

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Thatfeel21 said:
1. Some guys on here claim to only go after HB 8-10s but yet aren't even on that level to deal with them. Then whenever posters post pics of HB's that are very attractive (or even sometimes not), posters are very quick to downplay said chick and say she's "only a HB 6 at most"

So keep that in mind when you automatically bash a poster because he prefers chicks with a$$ and tiiits over an anorexic chick with no curves. .
This is strawman arguing at its finest.

1st of all rating a girl 1-10 is highly subjective. what is 10 to you might be 1 to me. and if you're posting a pic asking others for their subjective rating then you should be prepared to hear their ratings out no matter what their opinion.

if you post a pic of a girl and claim she is a HB10 and i say she's a 1 then that is no way bashing you or saying you have bad taste. it's just me saying i have a different worldview than you. nothing more nothing less.
 
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