Things I suck at:
(things I have struggled with in the past)
When a girl starts talking about any other guy (on purpose obviously), I generally try to ignore what they say but sometimes I say oh yeah he seems like a douchebag (if I don’t know them). I think it might come off as insecure? If I know them, I might say yeah he’s cool/or a good dude.
What is a good response? Better way to handle this situation?
Another thing is how to come off as being indifferent or unsure towards a girl (apparently they love a guy they can’t figure out) while also hinting that I want to have sex with her. Maybe a better way of putting it is escalating sexually without seeming over eager/keen, but also without making the girl think I just want to ‘tap and gap’.
More practice and experience needed? Or are there skills I can learn beforehand?
When a girl starts getting all ‘lovely-dovey’ over text and sends long detailed messages, in the past I have embarrassingly kinda mirrored this hahah, I hate to admit it but I’ve done it. What’s a good way of responding without coming across cold? The other thing is how to not answer deep and personal questions as I think this has removed the ‘mystery’ about me which is a card I think I need to hold on to.
This is behaviour I want to change to become more ‘masculine’, be better in general and not give a ****
So any advice on here would be great or even suggestions of good books/videos/articles
(things I have struggled with in the past)
When a girl starts talking about any other guy (on purpose obviously), I generally try to ignore what they say but sometimes I say oh yeah he seems like a douchebag (if I don’t know them). I think it might come off as insecure? If I know them, I might say yeah he’s cool/or a good dude.
What is a good response? Better way to handle this situation?
Another thing is how to come off as being indifferent or unsure towards a girl (apparently they love a guy they can’t figure out) while also hinting that I want to have sex with her. Maybe a better way of putting it is escalating sexually without seeming over eager/keen, but also without making the girl think I just want to ‘tap and gap’.
More practice and experience needed? Or are there skills I can learn beforehand?
When a girl starts getting all ‘lovely-dovey’ over text and sends long detailed messages, in the past I have embarrassingly kinda mirrored this hahah, I hate to admit it but I’ve done it. What’s a good way of responding without coming across cold? The other thing is how to not answer deep and personal questions as I think this has removed the ‘mystery’ about me which is a card I think I need to hold on to.
This is behaviour I want to change to become more ‘masculine’, be better in general and not give a ****
So any advice on here would be great or even suggestions of good books/videos/articles
