"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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crossboss

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1. Why not care what people think?
2. Why be yourself? What if your general personality is weird and annoying?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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1. Done take this it litraly. If you are doing something wrong, and people dislike it, thne its best to listen, if people give oyu advice it is best to listen. However if there are haters, people that are jelous, people that tyr to bring you down, ignore them!

2. Being yourself does not mean that if you are a bit weird you cant change this. It just means that you should not try and be something which you are not, dont put on some fake 'im cool' attitude if it does not feel right. Be yourself just means feel comfortable with yourself.
 
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haha. Cross, take this example.

I am studying for a college exam and you walk in all upbeat and pumped up, that's annoying.

I am at a party and letting loose, and you come by me all serious and mature-acting, that's annoying.

Stop getting so offended, people don't dislike other people because they are annoying, annoying is just the word we use but what we really mean at that time is, "This is not the right time."

Be yourself, be sexual, get you a positive group of friends and enjoy life. Think about it, Ashton Kutcher is very annoying to people when he's punking them! But he's still Ashton, and that's why we like him! We like you too, don't change! Be sexual around women, be cool around guys, and you're cool with us.
 
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