"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Things Done Changed....

Solomon

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It's Saturday night, I'm checking my stocks drinking vodka and working on my side hustles

5 years ago I probably would have been at some night club or bar

Honestly the appeal isn't there for me at all, ever since I turned 30 I really don't care to go out to clubs/bars that are superficial

anyone else feel that way?

I'm perfectly happy with this, focus on stacking my wealth and becoming financially independent


For your time!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Honestly the appeal isn't there for me at all, ever since I turned 30 I really don't care to go out to clubs/bars that are superficial
Congratulations, you're growing up. Not that there's anything wrong with the party lifestyle, that has its time and place. But you don't need to spend your entire life on it, although some do.
 
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