"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Things Done Changed....

Solomon

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It's Saturday night, I'm checking my stocks drinking vodka and working on my side hustles

5 years ago I probably would have been at some night club or bar

Honestly the appeal isn't there for me at all, ever since I turned 30 I really don't care to go out to clubs/bars that are superficial

anyone else feel that way?

I'm perfectly happy with this, focus on stacking my wealth and becoming financially independent


For your time!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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zekko

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Honestly the appeal isn't there for me at all, ever since I turned 30 I really don't care to go out to clubs/bars that are superficial
Congratulations, you're growing up. Not that there's anything wrong with the party lifestyle, that has its time and place. But you don't need to spend your entire life on it, although some do.
 
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