"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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things around the house...

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what stuff do you have in your house or room that fascinate girls you bring over? I want something in my room that can be a good convo starter before progressing to other things.:D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Heh, never thought about putting props around the house to start conversations. Usually when girls are in my bedroom one thing happens lol.

You should get something historic. Not authentic, but something that's referring to a historic event or an ancient artifact. And then know its history. Women and men love to naturally learn and be educated, and you'll appear knowledgeable.
 

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You should get something historic. Not authentic, but something that's referring to a historic event or an ancient artifact. And then know its history.
That's what I have.I travel a lot and have all kind kind of stuff from around the world.I don't keep them to "impress" the girls,but it always helps ;)
 
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what stuff do you have in your house or room that fascinate girls you bring over? I want something in my room that can be a good convo starter before progressing to other things.:D

A 57 inch High Def TV and a nice couch. The rest of my place is bare except for a king size bed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The lighting should be right. Have a candle or a dimmer switch on the light. Most girls do not like getting naked in full light.
 

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Guitars, bikes, books, clothing (chicks seem to enjoy going through my closet).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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cd's, xbox 360 (some girls like video games too; or if they're into you they will play anyway.) guitar, paintball guns/equipment, tv, bed :) posters, clothes, hats....
 
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