"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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things around the house...

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what stuff do you have in your house or room that fascinate girls you bring over? I want something in my room that can be a good convo starter before progressing to other things.:D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Heh, never thought about putting props around the house to start conversations. Usually when girls are in my bedroom one thing happens lol.

You should get something historic. Not authentic, but something that's referring to a historic event or an ancient artifact. And then know its history. Women and men love to naturally learn and be educated, and you'll appear knowledgeable.
 

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You should get something historic. Not authentic, but something that's referring to a historic event or an ancient artifact. And then know its history.
That's what I have.I travel a lot and have all kind kind of stuff from around the world.I don't keep them to "impress" the girls,but it always helps ;)
 
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what stuff do you have in your house or room that fascinate girls you bring over? I want something in my room that can be a good convo starter before progressing to other things.:D

A 57 inch High Def TV and a nice couch. The rest of my place is bare except for a king size bed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The lighting should be right. Have a candle or a dimmer switch on the light. Most girls do not like getting naked in full light.
 

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Guitars, bikes, books, clothing (chicks seem to enjoy going through my closet).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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cd's, xbox 360 (some girls like video games too; or if they're into you they will play anyway.) guitar, paintball guns/equipment, tv, bed :) posters, clothes, hats....
 
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