"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Dan08

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If you check my recent posts you'll see I had one recently where I was pissed off at myself for where I was in my life and letting what I thought to be a rejection from a girl at the time get to me.

Shows what little I knew, that same night I had that girl in my bed and if it weren't for PA I'd have had her. Things have moved slower since then so if you guys want to chuck suggestions out for that then cool.

Aside from that I've been chatting a friend of a friend and things are looking promising there ;) she's coming for a long wknd at christmas so I'll escalate and close, may want a relationship outta this one don't know....

But the whole kinda thing is because I've been stressed to my eyeballs with work and get this, my housemate on the same night I put that depressed post up and yet got that girl into my bed only went and tried to OD on aspirin and cut herself with a blade!! ****ed up.

So I'm trying to deal with that as well right now, go figure.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Not to be that guy but if you got her into your bed and didnt escalate then...you better make sure you do it next time.
 

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denverfan110 said:
Not to be that guy but if you got her into your bed and didnt escalate then...you better make sure you do it next time.
This. If you don't have sex with her the next time you see her its basically a wrap. You'll be firmly planted into the friendzone.
 

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Sorry guys, maybe didn't explain myself properly. I escalated in the bedroom except I suffered performance anxiety and lost my mojo midway and she was dry at times, made **** tricky. We said we'd try in the morning but never got round to it lol **** to do.

How do you reckon to play this one?
 

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Dan08 said:
Sorry guys, maybe didn't explain myself properly. I escalated in the bedroom except I suffered performance anxiety and lost my mojo midway and she was dry at times, made **** tricky. We said we'd try in the morning but never got round to it lol **** to do.

How do you reckon to play this one?

More foreplay should solve her dryness problem (more kissing, fingering, oral etc.). For your erection problems have her give you head. If she did that and you still didn't get hard then Idk what to say. I'm young so maybe one of the older guys can help you out.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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