"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dan08

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If you check my recent posts you'll see I had one recently where I was pissed off at myself for where I was in my life and letting what I thought to be a rejection from a girl at the time get to me.

Shows what little I knew, that same night I had that girl in my bed and if it weren't for PA I'd have had her. Things have moved slower since then so if you guys want to chuck suggestions out for that then cool.

Aside from that I've been chatting a friend of a friend and things are looking promising there ;) she's coming for a long wknd at christmas so I'll escalate and close, may want a relationship outta this one don't know....

But the whole kinda thing is because I've been stressed to my eyeballs with work and get this, my housemate on the same night I put that depressed post up and yet got that girl into my bed only went and tried to OD on aspirin and cut herself with a blade!! ****ed up.

So I'm trying to deal with that as well right now, go figure.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Not to be that guy but if you got her into your bed and didnt escalate then...you better make sure you do it next time.
 

Vidrio

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denverfan110 said:
Not to be that guy but if you got her into your bed and didnt escalate then...you better make sure you do it next time.
This. If you don't have sex with her the next time you see her its basically a wrap. You'll be firmly planted into the friendzone.
 

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Sorry guys, maybe didn't explain myself properly. I escalated in the bedroom except I suffered performance anxiety and lost my mojo midway and she was dry at times, made **** tricky. We said we'd try in the morning but never got round to it lol **** to do.

How do you reckon to play this one?
 

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Dan08 said:
Sorry guys, maybe didn't explain myself properly. I escalated in the bedroom except I suffered performance anxiety and lost my mojo midway and she was dry at times, made **** tricky. We said we'd try in the morning but never got round to it lol **** to do.

How do you reckon to play this one?

More foreplay should solve her dryness problem (more kissing, fingering, oral etc.). For your erection problems have her give you head. If she did that and you still didn't get hard then Idk what to say. I'm young so maybe one of the older guys can help you out.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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