"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thick Upper Lips

Diaoz

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Hmm, I've got rather thick upper lips but I wasn't born with them, in fact no one in my family is. Could it be because I used to kiss my bolster while I sleep so it ends up pouting too much during my puberty, when the lip's shape takes place? These days I have to conciously stretch my mouth when I talk and "bite" my lips when I'm not talking or it gets rather ugly, any way to help?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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gav

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i've got the same thing with my lips but don't women want fatter lips?

i used to worry constantly about what would happen if people found out i had big lips, heh, so i would purse them together.
-**** that, i ended up just not caring so i'm natural now and if people don't like that, **** em
 

Ronny_Neumonic II

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how bout u just get on with ur life?
 

jakethasnake

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Originally posted by Ronny_Neumonic II
how bout u just get on with ur life?

Pure genious. :)
 
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