"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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They're using kino on me. Creepy...

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Right, not sure if this is a problem... but here goes.

Soooo many girls exercise kino on me. To the point I actually get uneasy. They tickle me, playfuly punch me, come sit on my lap and hug me from behind, etc. I get kisses everyday from the girls I know, rarely walk alone (I've always got at least one girl under my arm) - and the scary part is even girls I met 15 mins ago start doing this to me. :/

I feel so gay being treated like this giant teddy bear.

Is it wrong to be a cuddle toy? Uhh... should I tell 'em to back down? I really can't tell whether this is hurting my game or not.

Edit: Oh, I'm not gay. And I do pretty much employ game correctly. I am a teaser, I'm confident, etc etc etc. It's just kino that I find to be my biggest weakness, because it still feels so alien to me, even though I do consider myself to be a VERY playful person. :-/
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well play back and start having sex with them. That should fix that problem.
 
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Originally posted by flexion_
Well play back and start having sex with them. That should fix that problem.
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:eek: Sex? Right there in the middle of the mall/club/restarurant/other such place...

I do play back... :-/ But then they just pound on the kino (tickling especially :( ) 2ce as hard. (I'm very ticklish... ehh... sucks...)
 
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Start hitting on them back and see what happens. If it leads to a sexual relationship then you know that you are the man and you are a natural.

If they get turned off then yes you are an asexual giant teddy bear and you might as well grow a vagina because you are just one of the girls.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Uhh... well, they usually hit back even harder when I hit back. Then I'm resorted to tackle 'em and pin 'em to the ground - or something like that.

For example, today I was out to lunch with two girls, and they were all over me. Wresteling all over, running around the mall trying to... uhh... yeah... *coughs*gay*coughs... tickle or slap. I bumped into so many people... heh. Then later when we got to our campus, they gut under each arm and we just went to chill with a few friends, all the time they stayed by me, and still occasionally did kino. But it def calmed down from what we did out at lunch. :-/ Just some poking, smacking and cuddling.

Heh... why does this all feel so wrong?

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Why are you complaining? If youre confident like you say you are, yet you dont like girls sitting on your lap then uh...maybe youre batting for the wrong team??:confused:
 
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I don't see a problem with them hitting on you.

It's just that much easier for you when she's doing all the work.

I personally love to be hit on. It's a great ego stroke and it's always a bonus if she's hot. Play back and bed them.
 
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Originally posted by Luscious
I don't see a problem with them hitting on you.

It's just that much easier for you when she's doing all the work.

I personally love to be hit on. It's a great ego stroke and it's always a bonus if she's hot. Play back and bed them.
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Thanks. That cleared up a few things. :)
 
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