They're Looking At Me!!!

[JDTHADJ]

MY problem isn't initiating converversation with females. Its more like im scared to do it in public like on a bus or sumthing in that nature.I realized that although im not treating her like the prize..im subconciously treating the people around us like the prize.which causes me to miss out on opportunities. I know this is one of those stepping stones that I have to get over in order to become a better being also.anybody here ever been through situations like this if so how did you overcome it.any advise???

 

[SharinganUser]

You are over analyzing this. It doesn't matter if you are on a bus or on a football field in front of 40000 people. When you are talking to her, you are creating a bubble. The only people in that bubble are you and her. Forget about everyone else.

 

[DJDamage]

Just picture yourself as an old man in his 70's sitting on his ass on a rocking chair and watching hot 20 year old chicks walking by and saying to yourself: "dang it, I shouldn't have been this scared when I was younger to approach a girl in a crowded place, so what if I were to get nervous or people would laugh at me, at least I can pat myself on my back when its over for knowing I had the guts to do so. Now its too late for me 'cause I am a gutless old man with wrinkles who can't get it up"

Now that is more of a scary thought, the thought of regret and knowing its too late.