"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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They're in a very close knit group of friends....

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Looks like your screwed buddy.
 
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hahaha, nice advice sin - real constructive...


LJBF the girl who likes you - which includes acting really AFC around her. Once shes won over as your friend you can use her to get the girl you like.
 
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Nice plans, thanks Sam... wish I could say the same for you Sin, hahah. I'll do that.. only question is wouldn't this fake AFCness rub off onto her friend too?
 
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Hey I deserve a break once in awhile.

I seriously don't see a way out of this unless that other girl already likes you as well. Probably best to just move on. Maybe come back later.

The thing is, it's high school, and even this AFCness might not turn her away. But anyway give it a try if sammy thinks it will work.

Probably not impossible though. Girls end up hating their best friends forever over stuff like this. Be carefull.

...That better?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah, there ya go 'sinny'!

Yes you can get away with treating High School girls quite AFCly sometimes - mainly because they don't really know any better (give them a couple of years), lol.

Plus, the fact that one girl likes you, means that you've got something going for ya and some social proof (you dog, you!).

So, to wrap up, i'd definitely LJBF'd the friend (do that away from the girl you actually like), and remeber to kino and escalate the girl you like.
 
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