It seems like every woman I meet these days is taking medication for something: ADD, depression, bipolar disorder, anxiety, etc. The biggest issue I have with women taking these meds is they tend to go crazy down the road. I've been there, done that and don't plan to return. So I'm writing off a lot of women. The most recent one, who is depressed, told me she hasn't been on her meds due to losing her insurance but will get back on it and promises she'll be a different person. This came after a little argument where she completely overreacted. It's getting excessive.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
They're All on Something
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
SW15
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Feminism, white collar office jobs/careerism, and riding the penis carousel do not bring happiness and overall mental health.
I think statistics are showing an increase in use of medications for mental health disorders.
I think statistics are showing an increase in use of medications for mental health disorders.
I know exactly what you mean! I was diagnosed with adhd in high school but the medicine made me feel not like myself so I said “fvck taking this” and just worked on myself to minimize it. I don’t like just putting anything in my body, I workout to keep good mental health as well as physical, I have a lot of cool friends, that’s really all you need for good mental health. If you notice with these pill popping women, none of them have any long term friends, male or female. There’s a reason for that, they run everyone off! I’ve got friends I’ve been friends with 30+ years.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Peaks&Valleys
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Totally agree with all of this. Society has fvcked with the natural order of things.
That's why 50 Shades of Grey was such a strange phenomenon, and I think it threw most guys for a loop. "Huh, you mean these empowered suit wearing, degree having, hear me roar chicks, at the end of the day........ just want to totally be dominated by a guy?"
It's like their natural feminine instincts and wants have been repressed all of this time.
No kidding..
That's a very good point. I figured it's because the previous generation just partied too hard that the effects of whatever drugs they took is being passed down to many in this generation. Which I still believe is part of the problem.
zekko
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The domination angle is legit, but don't forget Christian Grey was devastatingly good looking, in peak physical condition, he was a billionaire (with a B), he had servants to do his every whim, had status all day long, every woman wanted him, achieved erections on a dime, and he was a philanthropist besides. And despite all that, he only wanted Anastasia. So yeah, he was a fantasy character, but there was a little more to it than simply being dominant. The guy ticked every box you could possibly imagine.
Anyone over the age of 30 who is running around undiagnosed is a LIABILITY to everyone else. For women, that's pretty much 25+, or whatever you circle jerk that number down to. And there are a metric fvck ton of them running around on some gaslighting, narcissistic, social media/swipe app rampage. UFC has been preaching gold for years: "Advance yourself at all times, protect yourself at all times...no for gays Jesus"
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
ThisIsSparta
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The fact that antidepressants exist, hides the fact that there's a big problem, with white women in this case and prevents a hard look at what's at the root cause. Just pop this pill and you'll be good.
Bingo-Player
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One of my ex's had some form of bipolar and or ADHD
Not sure she was taking any medication for it
But you could see it in her eyes
Not sure she was taking any medication for it
But you could see it in her eyes
That upward trend is most likely due to the SSRI’s now available online without a real doctor’s appointment. Women are all about their feelings and emotions, so you’re not getting the real deal if she’s constantly on emotional bandaid meds and not getting needed professional psych help …
AureliusMaximus
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Maybe its just me?
But personally I never understood why people take mind/feeling numbing chemicals e.g. psycho pharma drugs that makes them feel nothing instead of dealing with their inner demons/issues and improve themselves. Why not get your shyte together and get better with yourself right?
Anyway...
I've noticed too that way to many chicks have psychological issues these days. Way more than ever, its crazy. Social apps/internet which they are so hooked on is part of the problem creating this I suppose?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Such a beautiful soul too. Very caring but ultimately damaged to a point where she would shut down, very drastically at times. I just can’t put up with that. Anyone that can must be crazy themselves
It is. I read somewhere it’s illegal in almost the entire world to advertise medication on TV but here in the US every other commercial is advertising something.
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I think the insurance companies in the US push for drugs rather than talk therapy because it’s cheaper on their end.
Every chick I’ve known that said she had anxiety issues was a train wreck. Her relationships were all toxic, she had a messed up life, can’t keep friends, etc etc. Anxiety is the new “I’m bat**** crazy so look out”. I’ve known 3 women that admitted they had anxiety. One is 45 and she literally shakes when you’re around her because she doesn’t know how to carry on a conversation, she’s also fat and still likes to go to bars with her loser girlfriends who are also crazy, she chases bikers so you know she’s been passed around, her ex husband is cool and remarried and I can see why she ran him off. Another one is 37 and toxic af, still works some entry level retail job like you would in high school or college. She brags that she just got a raise to $18 an hour. Brags!lol Jesus help me with these women these days.haha
Bible_Belt
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They have also kept cbd and cannabis on the edge of legality, because they are bad for business. CBD is supposed to be legal, but if you make too much money, the FDA will fine you for "misleading" people, even when they can't find any of these people. I can make products that cure a host of common ailments, but I can't advertise and tell anyone, or the feds will come after me, because in reality they all work for big pharma.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.