"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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They should make a AFC to DJ show

oscarxp25

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We see Shows like Desperate Housewives that promote female enpowerment. They should make a show about a group of guys who get of their AFC ways and become DJ's


One guy would have been in a abusive relationsip and is scared but dumps his girlfriend. He would be over weight to show that looks do not matter

The other guy would be the ultimate AFC and turn into DJ through the show.


Any other types that could change
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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SamePendo

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Actually, I'm thinking on a show. More than thinking, squetching (sp?) one, so that I have a solid idea to put some contacts moving and get the snowball down.
 

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They had a dating show on MTV that was like that called "Wanna Come Inside?"

A DJ would talk to the AFC through an earpiece while he was on the date.

A golden moment was when this girl said she wanted dessert, and the AFC said, "dessert?! I'M the God damn dessert!"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MTV also had another thing, I forgot what it's called, where they took one guy and stuck him with another guy he looked up to/admired for two days to see if he could be changed. Most of these shows were a loser/shy/bad with girls type of guy, so bascially exactly what you're talking about. Forgot what it was called though, it wasnt the show already mentioned.
 

i am me

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/\"why cant i be you?"

and "made" is another show i like watching
 

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Dating shows are painful to watch. I'm more embarrassed to watch them than to actually be on a date myself.
 
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