"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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They Say: Assume She Like YOU..Without Being Obsessive

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From the Subject Line.....HELLO!!! Please Explain. How to handle all the attention. Being 38 yrs old and being approached by single women, married women and female DJs (Yes, we know female DJ games). Who said being a DJ was easy:crazy: It sorta drives me crazy.. in a good WAY.

I'm not saying I'm all that what so ever, however, look at it from a perspective that you notice a women and this women is noticing YOU. Then, in your own mind you are like, well...uummm..if she do it again (flirt with you) i'll do this..but you say...well uummm...I don't want her to think I'm desperate. Then, this other female is doing the same thing. Now, what do you do? OMG!!! What Now. Everywhere you turn...

It's too confusing. But, I love the knowledge on this website. Kill the Desperation.....Most of all, Respect the Lady.

What would you do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What the hell? Interracting with women isn't desperation, mate.
 
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Dear King of Action,
Like Jitterbug I am quite bewildered what are you trying to say?....
 
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**** respect the lady, respect the ****. I don't mean that literally, I mean that in the sense of attitude. You HAVE to have attitude. Even if it's light-hearted.
ANYTHING. But you have to have an air of "I'm the prize."
 
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Dear Evel Steve,
Yes I suppose what Our Regal correspondent is saying is,first create a role then to play it effectively live drink and eat that role until you believe that you actually are your imaginary creation...Yeah well it works on the Stage and is not life just a Theatre,and we the actors?Perhaps to Para Phrase your Mefanik,A DJ should see himself as an Artist,equipped to remove dresses off his conquests as though they were paintings.....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Scaramouche said:
Dear Evel Steve,
Yes I suppose what Our Regal correspondent is saying is,first create a role then to play it effectively live drink and eat that role until you believe that you actually are your imaginary creation...Yeah well it works on the Stage and is not life just a Theatre,and we the actors?Perhaps to Para Phrase your Mefanik,A DJ should see himself as an Artist,equipped to remove dresses off his conquests as though they were paintings.....
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Exactly. But on a deeper level, we DO play "roles." Jean-Paul Sartre professes this in his work: "Existentialism Is a Humanism."

The Mekanik is a character/personal study by Henry Rollins. He's NOT a nice guy, on a practical level. But the majority of women DON'T really like nice guys anyway....
 
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