So im in college right, having a decent amount of ass. After a semester i meet this great girl, beautiful, huge tats easily a 9.5. She becomes my GF. Surprise, now EVERY chick wants a piece of me! I wish they were all this friendly before! Similar encounters fellas? I just dont get it
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
They really want what they cant have....
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
HalfAddict
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You've got the "Scent"
They Want what they can't have.
If you leave your GF for one of these Chicks they'll become bored and won't be so friendly anymore I bet.
They Want what they can't have.
If you leave your GF for one of these Chicks they'll become bored and won't be so friendly anymore I bet.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I'm hoping what Desdinova says is true. I just dumped a girl and had sex with a total hot model. I mean drop dead gorgeous. She's hot but not relationship material. Now my ex was pissed for a month but slowly I see her stepping forward with smiles and walking close by me so that I'll notice her at skool. I did this because I felt her attraction for me was in the decline.
Just stop caring and they'll flock towards you but never give her the intention that you totally believe its over, just give her a tiny bit to keep her hopes up.
Also, since most girls never have high self esteem, it's much better to be a negative challenge meaning a jerk. Disrespect, not caring, selfishness, and all the good stuff is what girls, sadly, are attracted to the most. All this gentelmen being a nice guy stuff may work at the beginning but eventually, it'll cause the attraction to vomit out of her with time.
I'm hoping what Desdinova says is true. I just dumped a girl and had sex with a total hot model. I mean drop dead gorgeous. She's hot but not relationship material. Now my ex was pissed for a month but slowly I see her stepping forward with smiles and walking close by me so that I'll notice her at skool. I did this because I felt her attraction for me was in the decline.
Just stop caring and they'll flock towards you but never give her the intention that you totally believe its over, just give her a tiny bit to keep her hopes up.
Also, since most girls never have high self esteem, it's much better to be a negative challenge meaning a jerk. Disrespect, not caring, selfishness, and all the good stuff is what girls, sadly, are attracted to the most. All this gentelmen being a nice guy stuff may work at the beginning but eventually, it'll cause the attraction to vomit out of her with time.