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[Noinfoprovided]

Women has a list of men that are interested. They call this list friends.

If you are on top of the list, she will actively pursuit you.

How do I get to the top of the list?

The best way to get to the top of the list is by not being on it. Let her know that you are important and should be treated as such.

You are a valuable commodity and losing you would give her less options to choose from.

Beside if you really wanted to be her friend, you should always expect the respects you deserve.

It's better to be respected for leaving than to stay and be unwanted.

 

[thatfeel]

Not quite, try again.

 

[Spinach]

Great in theory, but the reality is a woman will hook up with any guy she wants as there are always a ready supply. If the woman is attractive and/or thin she has plenty of guys to choose from. Playing the "aloof" game with a mature woman will get you absolutely no where as she has played the game and knows the rules probably better than you do... If one is to assume that she will pursue you when she has equal guys to choose from makes you someone she will ignore as she doesn't have to chase you. Unless you are incredibly good looking, have tremendous social value, or want to buy her attention, playing this silly game will get you no where with anyone over 30. Might work with an addle brained teen or early twenty twit, but for any quality mature woman, she won't even break stride leaving you trying to be cool and unavailable. Just saying....