"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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They have sex with the "pool boy". Myth or not?

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That's what I'm wondering. Does this really go on a lot? Is it really as common as it's made to seem that these hot housewives sleep with the delivery guy, UPS guy, plumber, pool boy, etc.? My guess would be no. How true is it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I can say for sure that housewives and married women for sure have sex with the life guard at the pool or the tennis teacher when they go to vacation,especially in those vacation village.
Probably because he have very high social proof and since all the other women want them,the housewives want them too.
I read on the newspaper about 3 or 4 years ago about a very high diffusion of HIV in many middle aged family in a city,the reason was that all the wives went to the same vacation village and had sex with the same infected life guard,and then they gave the disease to their husbands once back,its common for husbands who are still working to send their wives and kids to vacation in summer alone...
An other good example how women morality is stronger than our.
 

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Try not to think of it in terms of an actual "pool boy". It's an archetype for a principle, not a person per se. The pool boy, the tennis instructor, the hot fireman, etc. is a stand in for a woman's sexual desire.
 

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yes it goes on. Assume Everything goes on. I read that a billionaire's wife in Australia ditched her husband for a few days and was found doing drugs with outlaw bikers.
 

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Dear All,
My best mate my age,runs a little gardening business does a few groups of units owned by mainly divorcees and widows,yes it is true that whilst their appetite is satisfied by a once a week jump,they really look forward to it and spread the word.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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decades said:
yes it goes on. Assume Everything goes on. I read that a billionaire's wife in Australia ditched her husband for a few days and was found doing drugs with outlaw bikers.
That is close to the details in the actual event...

She was his live-in G/f and he was indeed a very wealthy guy ( heir to a national TV network) . She had a regular role in a local soap on the same network and was fond of hanging out alone at a seedy bar frequented by crims and showbiz types. It appears that she also liked to hire female strippers to "perform" privately for her for hours on end while she did cocaine.

The event to which you refer is just bizarre. She left the club after meeting some low life crim biker and was found a few days later by the cops in his apt in her undies, apparently after consuming some "illicit chemicals".
Her TV career is over. She was punted out of the house by her rich B/f and was the object of national ridicule .

Last heard of heading to LA to "further her career" !
 

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Only in pornos.
 

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well, I dated a woman who did the electricain for wiring her house. She told me that as a waarning-he dropped over for some late night drunk booty call. She ended it with him. She told me this as a warning not to drunk dial her[never did],but forgot about how seedy the rest of the story made her look. Didn't last long after that.
 

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The former maintenance guy at my condo complex had some crazy ass stories. I don't doubt that it happens.

I would be more inclined to think that in today's world it's far more common for a chick to hook up with a coworker or an ex b/f off facebook than "the delivery guy". That kind of thing goes back to the days when women were bored housewives. Today they are boinking the boss, coworkers, and guys from their past who they can find with a few mere keystrokes.
 

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I think the purpose of this post is to simply say: "hot girls cheat"

Correct, they cheat. There are only two types of men; cheated on and cheating with. Pick one.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Duffdog said:
There are only two types of men; cheated on and cheating with. Pick one.
It may be sad, but it's definitely true.

I've been in more than one situation where I would have felt a lot better about a breakup (read- I wouldn't have turned into a blubbering idiot) had I done a little preemptive fooling around with other women. There's just something about a woman cheating on a man who has been 100% faithful that taps into the part of your monkey brain that makes you feel like a complete and total failure as a man.

Methinks this part of the brain might be short circuited by taking liberties of your own.
 
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